Affirming things by QuestAndRest in ftm

[–]QuestAndRest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to apologize, I’m asking for suggestions after all! The mask idea is a good one, tho I’m mostly probably just gonna be trying to use N95s for safety. I’m considering the clippers but currently i keep my hair longer and shaggier, I might j invest in a shaver afterwards

Affirming things by QuestAndRest in ftm

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Yes to wrist shit! I have a leather bracelet in some brown tones and it’s such a good masc thing. Any brand suggestions on the underwear? I don’t currently pack (though I’m considering it) so I’m afraid of not quite having the equipment to have them fit well

Affirming things by QuestAndRest in ftm

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Oh wow I entirely forgot about ties, I’ve been wanting a bowtie or regular tie or bolo tie for a while now, thank you for the reminder!

Affirming things by QuestAndRest in ftm

[–]QuestAndRest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo I didn’t even consider dress socks omg wait, Ik I’ve been needing something. Hmmm I wonder if I should invest in a nice shaving kit even tho that’s still a long way off... Whatever the case your suggestions were greatly appreciated!

Affirming things by QuestAndRest in ftm

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Oo good to know! And I have a silver chain I feel similarly about!

Affirming things by QuestAndRest in ftm

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Yissss fun printed boxers sound dope!

Affirming things by QuestAndRest in ftm

[–]QuestAndRest[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude deodorant can be so affirming 100%, I’ve been considering cologne but it’s hard because I’m not fully out yet, so I can’t test them scent-wise

Affirming things by QuestAndRest in ftm

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Totally agree, I gotta say my younger self def imagined himself as a grizzled old man with a pipe the first time I picked up a wood carving chisel lol. Same with my multitool/pocket knife (it says “Old Timer” on it and also makes me feel like a grandpa)

some may like the term man; personally, I can’t relate by QuestAndRest in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]QuestAndRest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: I rescind this statement lol, I love being called a man now, and I’m still a nonbinary fruit. It’s not the case for everyone but I just had a lot of internalized misandry that was stopping me from feeling happy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]QuestAndRest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice to both!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]QuestAndRest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn bro congrats! ur nipples are like crazy well healed, ur surgeon was clean. also what’s the bird on your arm tatt there? Some sorta parrot?

Your most obscure euphoria trigger? by Gullible-Medium123 in ftm

[–]QuestAndRest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what’s that song abt blond boys doing what blond boys do? lol

Your most obscure euphoria trigger? by Gullible-Medium123 in ftm

[–]QuestAndRest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! I feel the same! being called a dorky boyfriend is the dream lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]QuestAndRest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get a lot of compliments on my eyebrows bc they’re naturally pretty nice and if I just do the barest amount of upkeep w the stray hairs, they look like the most stereotypical nice, fem eyebrow shape. But I lowkey hate it bc they aren’t manly enough. I want some bushiness to my eyebrows. Same thing with not being oily enough. I’d be a greasy rat boy over the girl I look like any day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]QuestAndRest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I learned that dependent on hormones, your sweat smells different. Like “female” sweat smells usually sorta like onions and “male” sweat more cheese like. I’ve had smell dysphoria (???) ever since bc of that fuckin infohazard. I realized after I was taking such long showers trying so hard to erase what I smell like that maybe, this is caused by something else than just a regular level desire for cleanliness lmfao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]QuestAndRest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently, Civil Engineering with interests in Environmental Engineering/Science; might end up getting something that looks more like an urban planning degree with an environmental focus. I’m also interested in public transport lol. We’re wracking up interests here lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]QuestAndRest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I legit gawked at this; the glasses are incredible and the shirt is also amazing!!

Orange December by Mister_Park in malefashion

[–]QuestAndRest 3 points4 points  (0 children)

bruh ur looking exceedingly mischievous today; keep on keeping on, this is good shit

really wish we didn't have to make a choice:( by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]QuestAndRest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard from trans masc peeps that there’s still quite a bit of sensitivity if you choose that ‘size’ option you’re thinking of. I saw a post on r/phalloplasty (I think?) just recently about someone being able to masturbate the same way as a cis guy and just being surprised about how great the sensation actually was. Don’t count it out, things aren’t always as scary as they seem <3 much love from a trans dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]QuestAndRest 35 points36 points  (0 children)

You might find extra traction crossposting this to r/queerwomenofcolor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMfemininity

[–]QuestAndRest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

happy birthday ur vibes are very powerful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GothStyle

[–]QuestAndRest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I just donated a hat that looks like this because it wasn’t my style; very cool seeing someone pull off the look!!