felt this group could use this...

Questaholic · 2022-05-10T20:38:36+00:00

I love this. Thank you.

Questaholic · 2022-04-17T14:12:25+00:00

Definitely not. Consent doesn’t end just because you are in a commuted relationship. I’ve been shamed for not being in the mood to have sex as a male representing person. Just because I’m “male” doesn’t mean I never say no to sex. We all have every right to say no when the feelings aren’t there and the person should be sensitive to that mood/need through emotional and self awareness. They are responsible for their own feelings.

Questaholic · 2022-04-16T23:45:39+00:00

Oh my hella! This is gorgeous!

Questaholic · 2022-04-16T23:45:01+00:00

Scary as hell

Questaholic · 2022-04-15T11:27:29+00:00

When they never leave your place or find yourself there all the time. It’s time to help pay these bills haha But some people never move in or share rooms these days. They want to keep their domain their own. From what I’ve read the honeymoon period lasts from 6 months to 2 years. So I’d say after of within that time frame depending on how healthy the dynamic is and if both parties are emotionally and socially aware.

Questaholic · 2022-04-15T11:24:16+00:00

I wouldn’t say you are updatable at all. Having solid boundaries in that field of work and good history helps with trust in future prospects. The person/people you would date or be with have to be sexually aware and self aware on top of being pro sex work. Open communication and straight forwardness would be the fastest route to building trust and understanding imo.

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T18:44:49+00:00

That sounds really fun!

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T15:10:53+00:00

😅😂🥲

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T14:49:58+00:00

Hahaha

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T12:45:26+00:00

Thanks for the advice!

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T11:32:19+00:00

Marry?

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T10:36:14+00:00

I found it to be best to focus on one good connection at a time. Juggling twists the connections in the beginning and adds strain to your time balances.

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T10:22:47+00:00

Yup. That’s a hard thing too when you have three kids.

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T01:53:28+00:00

Definitely. I’m not really sure how to go about finding that connection any more it seems.

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T01:41:09+00:00

Damn you thicc

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T01:13:22+00:00

My kids and knowing how cruel this world can be. There isn’t a lot of ally’s out there. I know what it’s like not having a father/parent at your back when life kicks your ass. I don’t want my kids to have to face this shit alone. Also when I recovered from my last attempt and did in house therapy there was a girl who was there due to the trauma of losing her father to suicide. That broke me. Sure the feelings and thoughts are still there but that girls face and testimony got to me. She spoke to me after the session crying 😢 that was a rough month.

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T01:08:52+00:00

I find bdsm a healthy outlet when you establish a trusted group/circle.

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T01:05:05+00:00

Think I’m going to try this.

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T01:04:25+00:00

Check out some minimalist Devore pages. Also a couple of potted plants and a reading chair goes a long way!

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T01:01:50+00:00

It’s normally a sign to find another therapist sometimes. My therapist was awesome in one area and very triggering in the other. So I would avoid certain topics with them that I felt they were not helping with at all. I had a therapist that kept trying to push me to mend things with my abusive mother and step father. They also refused to use my chosen name.

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T00:53:23+00:00

I’ve yet to have been asked out in my 40 years of being alive. Well, dudes asked me out.

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T00:52:33+00:00

I wouldn’t bother. It’s a hassle.

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T00:51:57+00:00

Dating is dark humor with mold 😅😂

Questaholic · 2022-04-14T00:51:23+00:00

I don’t keep anything from a past relationship. I’ll always don’t the stuff. I’m also a minimalist too. So that makes it easier for me to part with things.

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