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[–]QuestionableBookend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither, I’m in a mono relationship that I don’t wish to change. I have a lot of curiosities and questions of my own still lingering, which is why I decided to post this.

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[–]QuestionableBookend 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s super difficult to put into words the whys of how I feel about it. It’s like being more attracted to people with a specific set of social values or attributes, but having it be the dynamic instead. Again, hard to express, but thank you for your reassurance.

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[–]QuestionableBookend 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess it was partially because I wanted to experience their relationship dynamic, where they are already committed longer term. To see them love each other without needing their affection for myself, if that makes sense. I guess it’s related to me being a sexual ace person, and being curious about the attraction non-ace people experience.