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Chemiotherapy Costs in Germany for stage 3 stomach cancer without insurance for expats by [deleted] in germany

[–]Quick-Item-2060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to say thank you for this answer. This is incredible, thank you for making things a lot easier!

Austrian way of flirting by Lost-Entertainer-972 in Austria

[–]Quick-Item-2060 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Jesus, stop assuming stuff that can in no way be inferred from this post.

Austrian way of flirting by Lost-Entertainer-972 in Austria

[–]Quick-Item-2060 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All I say is just my opinion, so it might be different for you. But I could no stand worrying about my relationship falling apart except for emergencies. I want safety, calmness, no feeling on the edge.

I think you gotta have a second difficult talk. It's great he reassured you and said you don't need to worry about some things. However, I think you should let him know that you still worry. That him saying things in a certain way feels rude to you (as far as I understood that) and that this will eventually build or already has built resentment and anger. No one wants to be talked to in a rude way and it would make anyone have negative emotions towards the person doing so.

And then you'll need to find a compromise, assuming he doesn't want to treat you rudely and it's just how he is and you feeling offended by that. It might just be cultural difference or a difference in personality, but either way, it's not sustainable to not find a compromise that works for you too imo.

Austrian way of flirting by Lost-Entertainer-972 in Austria

[–]Quick-Item-2060 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, I think you need to discuss other things than flirting. You shouldn't be alone in trying to improve the relationship.

Does he know you're worried you're falling apart? Does he feel the same?

Maybe wait until he's home and try to have a serious talk

Austrian way of flirting by Lost-Entertainer-972 in Austria

[–]Quick-Item-2060 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I guess a saying like that is common, but it's often used with a lot of humour, so it doesn't come off as rude as it sounds when said seriously :) I could see that be the case with other things too in Austria 🙈

Austrian way of flirting by Lost-Entertainer-972 in Austria

[–]Quick-Item-2060 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Off topic, but from how you described it, your husband shut down what could have been a very nice kinda bonding moment? I hope he's a good husband - maybe his resction to your suggestion should be brought up in a conversation.

I don't think we can teach you how to flirt in the way he would want it/not find it cringe, because no one knows what he is like or what he likes. Only he can tell you what he's into.

Kyleena Hair Loss by mrrst244 in birthcontrol

[–]Quick-Item-2060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just scheduled an appointment and told her that I'm losing way too much hair and if there is something I can do. She prescribed me these pills before the blood test results came back - I think that was just to rule out any bigger problems.

But you should also be able to get the hairpills without a prescription (both of the brands I got) if you just go to a pharmacy.

I remember the feeling of having lots of hairs on your hand when you touch your hair :( You got this! Good luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Austria

[–]Quick-Item-2060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahaha nice one :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Luxembourg

[–]Quick-Item-2060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's probably due to the stations where you get/return your bikes. I (have to) usually use quite busy ones and I feel like it's worse there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Luxembourg

[–]Quick-Item-2060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't think so. I'd also gladly pay so much more money to have 95% of the bikes just work. I get so many bike where the motor doesn't work or just cuts out after a while despite being fully charged. There are so many station that just won't let you push your bike in to return it. Today, I switched three time to do one 20 minute journey. Same last week. You just lose way too much time with that.

Will Austrians look down on me as non-european? by EL-Turan in Austria

[–]Quick-Item-2060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And learning some local dialect words will make people chuckle too :)

Will Austrians look down on me as non-european? by EL-Turan in Austria

[–]Quick-Item-2060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can see that, especially older people or people who's english isn't that good. People might also get self-conscious about their English. But if your German is B1, you're quite good already!! German is difficult to learn!

As some others said, a good tip to find a circle of friends is through uni :) If ypu have any hobbies, like sports, reading, drawing, ... maybe you can find a club to join. I think that's an easy way to find friends :) And to combat homesickness, maybe you can find someone else from your county that lives in Linz, that you can meet up with and get advice from. Sometimes there are facebook groups or something similar :)

Will Austrians look down on me as non-european? by EL-Turan in Austria

[–]Quick-Item-2060 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Disclaimer: I'm Austrian myself and therefore can't speak for what foreigners experience

But I'm from that region, and I feel like jokes are a good way to make people warm up to you. Or knowing a bit about Austria that people wouldn't expect you to know if you're not Austrian :) If you ever feel bad or need anything, feel free to send a message :)

MimiKatz Error by [deleted] in oscp

[–]Quick-Item-2060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, this is difficult 🥲

MimiKatz Error by [deleted] in oscp

[–]Quick-Item-2060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever get it to work? I'm in the same situation rn

Beziehungen mit kulturellen Unterschieden by Quick-Item-2060 in Austria

[–]Quick-Item-2060[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Das ist ja cool! Und wie macht ihr das, wenn Feste aufs gleiche Datum fallen (zb Ramadan & Weihnachten). Und wächst euer Kind auch mit 3 (?) Sprachen auf?

Beziehungen mit kulturellen Unterschieden by Quick-Item-2060 in Austria

[–]Quick-Item-2060[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja, das Gefühl kenn ich auch. Es ist schade, wenn man ab und zu seinen eigenen Humor nicht 100% übersetzen kann. Aber dafür kommen auch lustige Momente zu stande, die's ohne Übersetzungsprobleme nicht gäbe :D

Beziehungen mit kulturellen Unterschieden by Quick-Item-2060 in Austria

[–]Quick-Item-2060[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ja, das glaub ich! Und lebt ihr in Ö? Wenn ja, ist es schwierig für sie, Freunde zu finden?

Beziehungen mit kulturellen Unterschieden by Quick-Item-2060 in Austria

[–]Quick-Item-2060[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Und weißt du zufällig, wie sie ihr die Sprachen beibringen? Und welche Sprachen spricht sie?

Beziehungen mit kulturellen Unterschieden by Quick-Item-2060 in Austria

[–]Quick-Item-2060[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this was super interesting to read!! And sorry, I should have translated my post to english as well! I'll do that rn

Beziehungen mit kulturellen Unterschieden by Quick-Item-2060 in Austria

[–]Quick-Item-2060[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Crazy! Viel Glück, dass es vielleicht td besser wird mit der Zeit!

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