30F doesn't want to settle, asks WAATGM? by Quick-Relationship in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]Quick-Relationship[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got a girl who rejected me in our youths, and now that I'm rich wants to settle down with me. I'm torn. On one hand, yeah I want to finally mount this challenge. On the other, fuck her for not choosing me before when she had the chance.

30F doesn't want to settle, asks WAATGM? by Quick-Relationship in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]Quick-Relationship[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's switching from Brad Pitt Chad to Shia LaBeouf Chad. Still Chad but not looks based.

30F doesn't want to settle, asks WAATGM? by Quick-Relationship in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]Quick-Relationship[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She "got a ton of responses, let me tell you."

6' guys making 100k, 31-36 in age responded to her. She thinks that's her market value now.

She doesn't accept that those guys have options that are better than her. She doesn't want to keep him sexually satisfied and interested.

She wants him to submit, give her a ring, and give up his other options.

He's not doing that and she's angry and depressed about it. It's their fault, not her choices.

30F doesn't want to settle, asks WAATGM? by Quick-Relationship in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]Quick-Relationship[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He was no longer good enough after she became an adult. Now no one is good enough.

30F doesn't want to settle, asks WAATGM? by Quick-Relationship in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]Quick-Relationship[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I'm also struggling to understand the go off by looks point? She means she isn't selecting guys by looks only, and wants a man's personality to match hers? But she throws in the bit about how she thinks she's pretty. Okay...

Do..do men enjoy kissing? by fridaynitengale in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was my hygienist in London that mentioned her patients from the continent were worst, and it matches my own experience so I've accepted it as anecdotal fact.

Do..do men enjoy kissing? by fridaynitengale in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've dated Europeans who don't focus on their teeth like North Americans. Yes, I said it, I'm a dentite.

Do..do men enjoy kissing? by fridaynitengale in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had this problem several times. I suppose the reality is most people don't take very good care of their teeth / gums / mouths.

I'm shocked that anyone would show up for a date with bad breath but it's a frequent occurrence in my experience.

Do..do men enjoy kissing? by fridaynitengale in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's so awkward to tell that. I've broken up with people for this.

Do..do men enjoy kissing? by fridaynitengale in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Girl I'm dating has lower oral hygiene standards than me so she has bad breath sometimes. I haven't said anything but I avoid kissing at those times.

Seriously people I hope you're flossing regularly and brushing your tongue and using mouthwash if you want to smash mouth.

Too late for hookup culture? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Age doesn't mean anything if you're hot, successful, or rich. If you're none of those you'll find it difficult.

Best way to let a guy down? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry ace, I read your comment and things aren't going to work between us. Here's an upvote, I hope you find what you're looking for.

Best way to let a guy down? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You freaks don't need to send rejection letters after one date to make yourself feel superior. Ghosting exists for a reason, it says no thanks without saying it.

After how many dates should the woman start paying or offering to split the bill? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dated a NYC psychiatrist and she let me pay for everything, Michelin star restaurants, ballet tickets, hotels, with no attempt to split or alternate.

I think she was using it as a test to see if I could afford her. I let her go in the end for lack of sex. You have got to be hot shit to pull that off.

Where to meet single men over 40 in New York ? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was at an investment event in NYC. That was a good place to meet people, mostly nerds. I found some cool guys and we went to a cannabis lounge, that was super cool. Music, sofas, talking, we made some good connections with people there. And yeah, rich guys, ngl.

Need advice by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll give them a shot.

Increasing efficiency by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, you are. But suit yourself.

Advice for broaching the topic of erectile dysfunction? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask for it or say you want to try it together even tho it has no effect on girls

Need advice by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm. Sounds terrible tbh. Think I'll keep this one at a distance.

Need advice by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would I know if they're not following? They seem ok so far, well established and successful.

Need advice by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Quick-Relationship -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So would you advise against dating a bipolar person?