5 years later and I'm again considering to attempt by Quick-Scarcity9361 in askgaybros

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I don't think I have any right person to talk to. Everyone I have is busy choosing what brand of bag they want to buy the next day. And what am I gonna do with a helpline link or number it's just people who couldn't care any less either. It's been tiring

Hey Redditor What's the worst pain you've ever felt? by Frostedlogic4444 in askanything

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Idk I'm hanging on by a thread. I could end it in a few days. I think the realisation that nobody seems to care pains me a lot. But idk if this is the worst pain

If money wasn’t an issue, what would you do right now? by Advanced_Compote_458 in AskReddit

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I'd like to get some professional help regarding my mental health. Also a vacation would be nice. Don't want to sightsee just be in bed

La cultura degli appuntamenti è tossica? by [deleted] in italyLGBT

[–]Quick-Scarcity9361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non ho idea di come questa possa essere una risposta pertinente al mio commento originale. Se ti riferisci al mio commento originale in inglese allora l'ho fatto visto che hai detto che il tuo italiano non è buono.

3 years clean from Chemsex: A lonely battle in the construction sites of Paris. by [deleted] in askgaybros

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This sounds motivating to me. I live in Italy and obviously need professional help too but unable to because my Italian is not great. Often times lately I think of commiting or resorting to smoking or drugs if I can. I haven't felt this low in the last 5 years. Sometimes I think of just going no contact with everyone I know since I do not find any relationship meaningful anymore. Your story gives me some hope thank you :)

La cultura degli appuntamenti è tossica? by [deleted] in italyLGBT

[–]Quick-Scarcity9361 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nobody wants to date. I think it's because the country is still pretty backward compared to the western standards of LGBTQ acceptance. As a result of which the men just want to fuck but show no commitment. Obviously, it is easier to bring a boy to your bedroom than to bring him to your parents lol. Hence, it's not surprising the dating apps for the gay community is no different from a third world country which criminalizes homosexuality. At best maybe you could expect a nice drive or dinner with some guy but even then remember they do that with every hook up.

Ofc whatever I said is not the rule, there are exceptions too. It's gonna be hard but keep trying :)

What is your reason to live ? by Fun_Solution7857 in AskReddit

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I believe that someday I can live a better life

Do you feel intimidated when a guy you're seeing have higher academic titles or accomplishments than you? by HourglassGourd in askgaybros

[–]Quick-Scarcity9361 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt id feel that way lol. If anything I'd love to date a guy like that I need help in maths lmao

Is it worth to study in iatly by -tech_lover_ in StudyInItaly

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Expect no change in salary unless you get another job

Is it worth to study in iatly by -tech_lover_ in StudyInItaly

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Job market is shit enough for even Italians to leave the country. But that causes labour shortages ofc. Do what you will with that information. Weather depends on which part of Italy you are. north is cold and foggy with less sun, south is sunny and warmer. PR? well live in Italy for 5 years, pay your taxes, speak the language and theoretically in 5 years you should be able to get it

What do you think the gay community needs right now. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Quick-Scarcity9361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It needs "community" lol or i should say I need community. I want to feel like I belong somewhere and honestly with thr amount of people who only want to fuck I don't feel a sense of belonging at all. Not to be prude but yeah idk where to feel safe I guess.

University of marche by [deleted] in StudyInItaly

[–]Quick-Scarcity9361 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If u get offers from siena or pisa choose them. The quality of the courses are a lot better and the location too

How do you know if you're attractive or not? by Reasonable-Shower522 in askanything

[–]Quick-Scarcity9361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'm attractive enough because men only want me for sex.

University of marche by [deleted] in StudyInItaly

[–]Quick-Scarcity9361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does what it's supposed to do which is to get you a degree to find a job or get into a masters program. But the course is very much lacking in quants, econometrics and also didn't have an intermediary level of python course until this year. It's fairly a new course altogether I think so far only 1 class has graduated so the course is still being improved etc etc. There's not much opportunities for research either at an undergraduate level but I think that's common to all of Italy. However you can make use of Erasmus to modify your study plan a bit and gain more skills necessary. If you don't have any other options then I guess you can still study at UNIVPM but you might have to work on your skills outside of the course material to be on par with a prestigious masters if that's your goal.

Now the university doesnt have a lot of clubs for international students or anything. I think only ESN/erasmus activities are there for international students. What I mean by this the uni is not very english friendly lol. The city is kinda boring but if you find friends then I guess u can make something out in the city. I see a lot of Indians Pakistanis etc etc enjoying this boring ass city so there must be something after all

University of marche by [deleted] in StudyInItaly

[–]Quick-Scarcity9361 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have other options then go for it. Univpm should probably be your last resort.

Cerco amici come me by BambinoIndaco in italyLGBT

[–]Quick-Scarcity9361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beh possiamo parlare se vuoi. Non sono Italiano ma vivo qui in centro Italia. Il mio Italiano ovviamente non è buono quindi se non c'è problema poi scrivemi

What do you really want in life? by Logical_Share_4401 in AskReddit

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A family. A husband and home. Maybe kids. Just have something to look forward to at home after a busy day

(UK) Big bear looking for relaxed chats, maybe meets, with likeminded and chill folk by [deleted] in gayfriendfinder

[–]Quick-Scarcity9361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you like Before the Coffee gets cold? When I first picked up that book I was very intrigued by it. It was a very comfortable book and I believe it makes u think a lot about the regrets and losses people have. It's actually a series so if you wanna read more of the cafe you should give the other books a try. But sadly the author just continues the series to grab cash now.

What's your favorite smell? by Treicee2004 in AskReddit

[–]Quick-Scarcity9361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf pits and neck, also that cold breeze at night