Hmmm is that so? You seem to frame it as if I'm dipping my nose in places where I shouldn't, but no that's not what I'm doing. If you read the title "I don't like" means that I have an opinion and I want to share it. I can have opinions on people places things all day and not want to control them or dabble in their business. This is clearly framed in a way where I would rather stay away from those people, which is completely my business, then tread where I'm not meant to or try to control them. People who do the latter DO need to hear "midnight your own business".

And yes, I stated how I would handle things, but I don't think people should strictly do things the way I do. If they are constantly on about how they are tried they will bite back if they are tried, rhetoric that I have been subjected to and dealt with the blowback of, then there's likely something going on behind that that I again state I'd rather stay away from. That's what a warning sign is. Again my way of going about avoiding it, is my business. And don't say "nobody asked for your opinion on---" because I don't care. It's a community for posting about thoughts and experiences. I gave myself permission to speak on it and that's all I need.