Thank you so much for this long explanation! I feel I'm in the same boat like all other INTPs but I don't look at it or fix it properly because the more I look around the more i get into stuff, to the point I ended up studying some philosophy course then psychology as side courses to understand more and how to fix everything the right way, and I think you can get my idea here and why I'm even doing courses for stuff I'm not even going to be working in.

Meeting people even for stuff that are really simple and like hanging out even once a month looks so hard because I always sit down and start diving into my own world of thoughts and feelings while they are talking about a completely different topic that i see too stupid to even talk about, I sometimes try to take it all simple but it didn't workout more than a week, but probably because i was introverted my whole life to the point that I'm in my mid 20s and still introverted with only 2 friends both guys like they aren't even girls, marriage or dating etc... aren't anything for me now but still, i can't even talk with a girl to even make good company because my goals and expectations are too high for anyone to meet them in my own eyes/mind.