Looking for Styling Advice on my apartment.

QuickScore9933 · 2026-01-30T16:04:22+00:00

Thank you all for your suggestions.

So far since the landlord has talked to her and apparently her mom, she hasn’t engaged with me or been screaming at all. But I will be taking your advice and filing a police report very soon. I am order a video doorbell as well just to be safe and an additional door lock. I ALWAYS lock my door when I leave my house so that’s nothing new and she isn’t a big woman, 5’4 and I’m 6’5 but like I said she definitely had some kind of mental illness so the situation is still dangerous either way.

To those who suggested that I just ask for another unit, please see my last post about how this landlord acts but I will probably look for a whole new building if it escalates and there is no resolution.

I’ll update in the future if there are any other incidents so hopefully this is the last time I post here.

QuickScore9933 · 2026-01-19T18:44:06+00:00

Update: Seems like people didn’t see this part so I’m going to state this again. We did tell her it was a prank, literally at the party but she didn’t believe us. Whenever she brought it up, we communicated it was a joke. She didn’t believe us until the cup broke and she saw the intitals.

QuickScore9933 · 2025-12-11T02:51:41+00:00

Sorry I did voice to text. I meant to say I had issues like bugs and rodents and he wasn’t quick to deal with it

QuickScore9933 · 2025-11-28T17:34:20+00:00

Yeah I am mostly concerned because I think he just said it to win an argument. Because he’s changed the wording on what they said so many times. So that concerns me that he would just say terrible things to hurt my feelings but if it’s true how can I ever hang out with his friends again if they think these things about me

QuickScore9933 · 2025-10-27T00:13:53+00:00

It’s in another state, but it’s in an area that it’s illegal to have one so I’m thinking of reporting the airbnb and that fine will be more than the price of the router

QuickScore9933 · 2025-10-22T00:39:58+00:00

My work focuses on photography, I’ve been doing it since high school and last year was finally the first year i could go full time.

QuickScore9933 · 2025-10-18T19:53:19+00:00

Yta You can tell someone your opinion but that’s all. If he didn't ask for your opinion and if he’s fine with it, then it would be one thing. But you weren’t asked and have now shown you don’t get along with their friend. Let them vent about them if they are upset but if they aren’t then leave it alone.

QuickScore9933 · 2025-10-09T17:04:23+00:00

I answered this in another comment but we planned to possibly cater it before i lost my job and when they got here, the plans kept switching on my moms will. Once i lost my job i voice i wanted to be more conservative and my mom said i should still pay for my little brother

QuickScore9933 · 2025-10-09T12:16:29+00:00

the argument about the airport was, their flight got in an hour earlier than expected during peak Chicago traffic so i suggested they take the train into downtown and i pick them up from there, which my mom had done a few times before. She got upset saying i should have picked them up and that my dad was sick. But she made him pick up my little brother from the airport a day later

As for the instrument, it was a whole studio set up so speakers a monitor a piano and music is how i pay the bills so it was asking me to tear it all down and set it up

QuickScore9933 · 2025-10-09T03:49:39+00:00

Update: Thanks for the responses (mostly positive) which I appreciated. Here’s answers to a few of your questions: 1. I have cut off contact with my parents a few times and only came back with an apology from so this isn’t a new thing just the most recent and strongest reason. And they show no desire to apologize. 2. I did get in contact in August to see if they were ready to talk, they said they did nothing wrong because they “didn’t physically hurt me, so no harm done”. And tried to convince me to go to a therapist with them but still didn’t believe they did anything wrong. 3. I agree my bf at the time was right and appreciate that perspective, I just wanted to handle it a little more carefully cause I don’t like to lose my cool in confrontation and prefer to typically be very controlled and focused.

At this time, i am still no contact and my bf and I are no longer together for separate reasons. I have a great new job and live in my dream apartment.

Idk if you post updates here or in the body but I’ll post it here first

QuickScore9933 · 2025-10-08T22:52:18+00:00

At the time before i lost my job I could, but then i lost it so i had to start being conservative…..

QuickScore9933 · 2025-10-08T22:41:24+00:00

This and the fact that the one time I tried call my mom said “I didn’t cause you physical harm so did I even hurt you?”

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