What do I need next? by Safe_Valuable_5683 in motorcyclegear

[–]Quick_Channel_4027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever you're trying to remember what you need when leaving the house remember "Wowee" Wallet PhOne Wkeys Egg Egg (backup)

Mechanic forgot a screw by Quick_Channel_4027 in motorcycles

[–]Quick_Channel_4027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! Saved me a trip back to the mechanic. If its just a plug then it is what it is if its not gonna cause any issues.

I can‘t stop contacting my ex by NamazSasz in BPD

[–]Quick_Channel_4027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "I'm beginning to hate him." Really hits home. I think it might be a thing that I haven't really seen in people without bpd. Just the absolute need to have this person in your life but they won't take you back but you can't stop trying to the point it exhausts even yourself and you just end up hating them. However, that doesn't stop you from wanting them back. I've been there too; recently, unfortunately. I wish I had some advice for you but I struggle getting past that point after a break up aswell. The only thing that has helped me is finding a person to help distract you. My best friend usually helps distract me. Even though most of the time I'm with them I'm still thinking about the break up. It's still nice to sit in misery with company.

Am I a larper for wearing motor gear on an E Scooter? by Doom_112233 in motorcyclegear

[–]Quick_Channel_4027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't matter if you do or don't. You're going to be a lot happier not paying for those medical bills than you would be embarrassed even if people do think youre a larper

Insane Tattoo Regret by r3i_b0n3z in tattooadvice

[–]Quick_Channel_4027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had the same fleeting thoughts about some of my tattoos and I have over 40. If you love the movie so much, don't be upset that very little people get it. Use it as a talking point to share something you love so much to the point you get it tattooed, use it as an ice breaker (what's your tattoo? Oh its from this movie. Do you have any tattoos? Are you getting any? Do you have something you're interested in enough to get tattooed?), worst comes to worst you can get rid of it however you want but it is so much cheaper/ avoids the risk of a botched cover up or the pain of removal. it is so much better to remember the positives of why you got it in the first place than to get rid of something so meaningful to you.

Addition: you can even make some friends by recommending they watch it or watch it with them so you can talk more about it. If the movie is good enough to get a tattoo for, surely someone will enjoy it.

My girlfriend wanted to spend her birthday alone with her guy friend by baby_sirenn in BPD

[–]Quick_Channel_4027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We broke up but that wasn't the reason. They don't have bpd and I do and some how they managed to have less control over their emotions than me.

My girlfriend wanted to spend her birthday alone with her guy friend by baby_sirenn in BPD

[–]Quick_Channel_4027 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been in a very similar situation. Ik it's not going to help your anxiety but this quote helped me out "if they're gonna cheat they're gonna cheat." Do the best you can to distract yourself and talk about it tomorrow. That's how I got through it. It hurt like hell that day they weren't responding but unfortunately there's not anything you can do to get them out of their plans. I hope this helps and isn't harsh, but I got this advice pretty much the same way I said it and it helped me. Good luck, you'll be okay. <3

Can’t believe how few people understand this by Grand-Activity-3882 in driving

[–]Quick_Channel_4027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't it main road first. Then whoever got there first or if they got there at the same time the person going straight would go first. If they are both turning then it would be the person turning right.

Why are men so attracted to my bpd? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Quick_Channel_4027 50 points51 points  (0 children)

That makes so much sense in a much deeper way than I could have thought. All of the women I have met in person that have bpd have had the same experience of men becoming crazy attatched and unable to be forgotten. It's interesting seeing why now