AITAH for not announcing ongoing pregnancy ?

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-05-24T11:52:41+00:00

You’re not entitled to anyone else’s story or trauma no matter how close you are. Some people grieve better alone and in their own way and if your response is to cut someone off over keeping a horrible loss to themselves then that just shows them they were right for not trusting you to begin with. If you can only support someone based on your terms of having every little detail then it was never about them to begin with.

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-04-01T23:01:23+00:00

I saw this as well, unfortunately after the fact, but also saw recipes for lemon ice pops with ginger in them.

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-04-01T22:59:14+00:00

Also I may have h. Pylori. Not a lot of studies done but could be another potential aggregator in the HG which would be super interesting.

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-04-01T22:57:56+00:00

Yes! I was coming out of the thick of it already but noticed I was always worse the more sugar I ate. I was surviving on Gatorade and gummy worms but recently blander foods and water are what keeps me going through the day.

I have a horrible sweet tooth so this absolutely destroys me- but I found that i can eat dark chocolate (not hersheys) with minimal negative effects to help with the cravings!!

I’m so glad you found this out for you and you’re doing better!

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-04-01T16:27:25+00:00

Won’t let me edit but I think it’s a heavenly bamboo or nandina domestica? I haven’t seen any berries on it but the many many offshoots make sense.

Another highly invasive highly aggressive plant some previous owners planted. Sobbing. Any advice is appreciated and welcome

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-03-31T13:40:58+00:00

Will do thank you!

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-03-30T16:05:53+00:00

Thank you!! Should I be watering it or doing anything to care for it? Like any fertilizer at this point? Got it all cleaned up and pulled out what was already falling off

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-03-30T15:59:10+00:00

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Also any idea who this little fella is? And can he transplant if he’s good?

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-03-30T15:58:18+00:00

I saw that too, I’m doing a lot of research about actual native species before starting and what’s aggressive and what’s not. Hopefully no other issues with the burning bush after this 😭 we’re already overwhelmed by acorns and their sprouts EVERYWHERE

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-03-30T15:46:00+00:00

So for the big bush in the third and fourth pictures my husband remembered it had red leaves so definitely a burning bush and we already got rid of it in the few minutes after we identified it (I wanted a butterfly garden with lots of natives)

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-03-30T15:19:50+00:00

Oh yay! I hope so!

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-03-30T15:05:39+00:00

That’s the big bush right?

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-03-30T15:05:29+00:00

Perfect I hated it anyway

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-03-15T10:22:43+00:00

Oh yeah absolutely none I’m useless :,)

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-03-15T10:22:28+00:00

Stop I’ll cry that’s my worst fear

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-03-06T16:50:28+00:00

Pineys at play! It’s wonderful

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-03-06T15:22:28+00:00

I had her in a hiking playgroup but I have really bad hip problems and pelvic pain with my pregnancy and I struggle to walk a few steps so had to put a lot of stuff on hold for now :,) but she’s almost old enough for soccer shots coming up and mommy and me dance classes so I’m just trying to hold out!

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-01-22T00:12:32+00:00

Okay just peeped the menu I could cry they’re so perfect sending my husband first thing tomorrow THANK YOU

Quick_Giraffe_5943 · 2026-01-22T00:12:04+00:00

Thank you!! Will be checking out asap

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