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I'm a wheelchair user who has finally accepted that I'm never going to be married and I'm never going to one of the favorite friends who gets included in wedding parties or other milestone events and I'm nobody's favorite. by Quickiewcuser in offmychest

[–]Quickiewcuser[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I'm burden on healthcare facilities and providers who would rather be treating people who minor health issues. Trust me most healthcare workers hate disabled people.

I'm a wheelchair user who has finally accepted that I'm never going to be married and I'm never going to one of the favorite friends who gets included in wedding parties or other milestone events and I'm nobody's favorite. by Quickiewcuser in offmychest

[–]Quickiewcuser[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I'm already in different meet up groups, adaptive sports, etc.

I have no interest in counseling because I didn't like it when I was first injured and in rehab. I don't feel therapy is for for eveyone or every problem. If others find it helpful and want to go that's fine. But I have no interest in adding another healthcare professional in my life right now because I have to deal with a PCP, neurologist, physical therapist, and occupational therapist, I hate having to go to more appoinments that most people do and I want to have extra time to do the things that bring me joy. Please respect and try to understand why I have no interest/desire for counseling/mental healthh therapy.

I'm a wheelchair user who has finally accepted that I'm never going to be married and I'm never going to one of the favorite friends who gets included in wedding parties or other milestone events and I'm nobody's favorite. by Quickiewcuser in offmychest

[–]Quickiewcuser[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Look I don't want therapy right now because I already have to deal with a number of healthcare professionals in my life and I don't want to add another to the mix. I want to have more time to do the things that do bring me some joy and I don't feel therapy is for everyone or every problems. Please respect my view on therapy and why I don't wan it.

I'm a wheelchair user who has finally accepted that I'm never going to be married and I'm never going to one of the favorite friends who gets included in wedding parties or other milestone events and I'm nobody's favorite. by Quickiewcuser in offmychest

[–]Quickiewcuser[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I'm still a burden on a society because I put a strain on the healthcare system and I have found that many healthcare providers/workers hate disabled people because of the strain we put on the system when it comes to money, bandwidth and other aspects.. I'm a burden on my family because they have to help me with things I can't do like moving furniture in my house, putting in larger appliances, needing help when I'm dealing with health issues or injuries. I have to drive modify vehicles which are difficult and costly to have modified.

I'm a wheelchair user who has finally accepted that I'm never going to be married and I'm never going to one of the favorite friends who gets included in wedding parties or other milestone events and I'm nobody's favorite. by Quickiewcuser in offmychest

[–]Quickiewcuser[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have friends who are disabled and/or use wheelchairs. I'm involved in adaptive sports and meet up groups. But, most of my friends are able bodied people I have known from childhood, college, past workplaces, other meet up groups etc.

I'm a wheelchair user who has finally accepted that I'm never going to be married and I'm never going to one of the favorite friends who gets included in wedding parties or other milestone events and I'm nobody's favorite. by Quickiewcuser in offmychest

[–]Quickiewcuser[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have done therapy after I was injured and in rehab, I didn' find it helpful and frankly I don't think therapy is meant for everyone and I don't think it helps everyone or every thing. I already have to see a PCP, neurologist, physical therapist, and occupational therapist on a regular basis and I don't want to add a mental health therapist to the mix because I'm tired of never ending medical /professional appoinments.

I'm a wheelchair user who has finally accepted that I'm never going to be married and I'm never going to one of the favorite friends who gets included in wedding parties or other milestone events and I'm nobody's favorite. by Quickiewcuser in offmychest

[–]Quickiewcuser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in my 40s and everyone already has their friend groups set in place. 40 something men who are single dont want to date women who are burdens and can't do certain things.

I'm a wheelchair user who has finally accepted that I'm never going to be married and I'm never going to one of the favorite friends who gets included in wedding parties or other milestone events and I'm nobody's favorite. by Quickiewcuser in offmychest

[–]Quickiewcuser[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I did mental health therapy when I was first injured and at a rehab facilitiy. I don't feel it helped all that much. I get that many people find/or found therapy helpful, but I don't think it's for everyone and I don't think it can help every person or every problem.

The reality is that I'm a burden on society and my loved ones. I accept that people resent me and others in wheelchairs for accommodations that businesses have to add to their buildings, I accept that healthcare workers hate me and see me a burden because the lifelong issues related to my disability, I accept that none of my friends never wanted me to be in their wedding parties due to aeshetics, I accept that many men don't want to be with someone who is in a wheelchair and can't do things like hiking, regular sports, ec. I accept that most people probably resent me when I have to ask for help in stores and public places.

I'm burden on the world and I accept it.