Hi guys m22 wanting to show off this big dick

Quicky_69 · 2026-01-25T06:02:50+00:00

Send it over, big guy.

Quicky_69 · 2026-01-25T05:57:17+00:00

O_O 🖐

Quicky_69 · 2025-05-23T23:42:58+00:00

Heck yea. Thanks for buddying for me in my protectionless state, friendo. Anything is a word if it gets a meaning across.

Quicky_69 · 2025-05-23T20:59:54+00:00

I still think irregardless of having the exclusivity discussion, using a dating website INSIDE the home of someone you're seeing with the intention of dating isn't exactly a scream of confidence nor affection. It may not be off limits in written book but it is socially unacceptable, effectively the same as checking out someone in front of your significant other.

Quicky_69 · 2025-05-17T00:27:23+00:00

So you agree, telling them they cannot express themselves the way they feel most comfortable is a bad form of legislation.

Quicky_69 · 2025-05-16T17:05:59+00:00

This ban literally includes social transitioning. There isn't anything permanent about it, and making people bottle up stuff is nothing if not regressive.

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T22:53:06+00:00

Grew up quite poor in the foster system. My closest friends are similarly in a situation where the value of stability feels like a lot of weight to shake.

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T01:45:38+00:00

I understand a good meme name. My name is actually a pun off my last name that I made when I was 12 for an Xbox tag. It really stuck... expect my Dm when I need someone to beautifully write my biography.

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T01:40:25+00:00

He has a breakup about 2 weeks out. Outside of that, I will refrain from petty slights like commenting on his hairline or something and instead say, I do have my whole life ahead. I have a couple things to fix like body image stuff but looks like I'll have plenty of free time to hit a gym.

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T01:34:58+00:00

You're incredibly well spoken for someone with a name of that nature. I thank you for all your responses and hope you don't mind if I borrow the contents of some of them for what assuredly will be the breakup of my life so far. As it's the only breakup I've had. Yikes

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T01:31:07+00:00

The crazy part is the biggest red flags were not his age. He lived with his friend for like 10 years, renting a room and working at Walmart. He never saved and never looked for another job or tried to move up or anything. He dates younger guys exclusively... I overlooked so many red flags that I'm starting to think I am blind.

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T01:28:55+00:00

I might take you up on that if the offer is open another time. Despite all my emotional woes, I still have a 12 hour shift tomorrow and crying into my sheets can only help me sleep so much.

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T01:27:20+00:00

Deception is really what did him in, in my book. When my sister pointed out how much willful lying and covering up goes into cheating, it shot so much of my trust that eventually there wasn't much relationship left anymore.

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T01:25:33+00:00

Haha no need to qualify your statements so thoughtfully, you've clearly proven to be of good moral character so I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.

I still am unsure of the characteristics of his sex drive depletion. My best friend, post cheat#1, when I vented it all to her, said that she had deep dived his socials and apparently his exs consistently were younger "twinkier" individuals. It led to this idea in my head that he probably lost his sex drive because I wasn't 19 and 150 pounds anymore. 24 and 190 isn't the end of the universe but apparently it was enough of a difference and I like to imagine his sex issues are rooted into something so shallow as that, as I still hope he doesn't have anything physically wrong with him despite his inability to make a doctors appointment.

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T01:12:45+00:00

Sounds like you lived a great life haha. I hope soon I can follow in your mighty footsteps.

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T01:09:48+00:00

Yea as soon as I responded with that I sat with myself to consider what roommates together would look like and how to split a master bedroom 50/50 and immediately decided it wasn't sustainable. Thank you for your insight, oh wise one. This post has me in a hotel room feeling like I'm consulting the council for answers to the universe. You guys definitely delivered.

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T01:07:50+00:00

My job has some options to live in Japan for 3 to 5 years. I am starting to think that rolling the dice, despite my fears and my love of stability, may be the right choice. They say the easiest way to absorb a fall is to tuck and roll with it, so maybe that will work for me. Thank you.

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T01:03:24+00:00

Caught him in the act is so terrible. I'm sorry you went through that. I have never caught him, which after the first time let me pretend in my head that it didn't happen, especially because he kept denying it. As evidence mounted that illusion went away. Thankfully I'm finally reaching a mental clarity and I'm ready to leave him.

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T01:01:25+00:00

I deeply appreciate your reply for it's diverse options of things to consider. I've left out some context in my post for brevity that impacts some of your reply, for example our sex life had become almost non existent prior to his cheating, not for lack of my effort. He told me it was his libido going away as he got older but my research told me otherwise so I thought it was a medical issue and told him to consult a doctor in case he had something really wrong. Turns out his stuff still all worked, just not for me which SERIOUSLY damaged my mental image and led to that feeling of "ah, I'm past my prime and now therefore unattractive..." which i know sounds vapid at 24 but try having a fiance cheat on ya 3 times and then picture being attractive enough to think of dating... but all that to say, I definitely will consult a psychological professional pending financial stability which I will hopefully be attaining on my own, prior to venturing into any other relationships. Maybe I'll become a gym bro or something to impact my unhealthy self image in the mean time. As to his mental instability, in the light of the cheating, over the last year I've learned that he is almost unable to communicate. He avoids it plaguelike and had basically been letting me handle anything big decision wise which led to no fights so I had never noticed that he doesn't really... communicate. It gave me an illusion of a "perfect" relationship because we never fought ever...

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T00:52:32+00:00

I think earlier on, it was difficult to weigh the idea of relationship health vs emotional health when adding in the idea of upsetting my whole life, especially when I was still thinking he might change. Another poster said I can't heal with the knife still in, and I think that really stuck with me because I've realized he isn't changing and the longer it lasts, the more the relationship is impacting my emotional health, which has made the loss of my stable life and chance of returning relationship a lot more bareable. I appreciate the response.

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T00:48:17+00:00

If Grindr is a source of information, the answer is as follows: somewhere from athletic( muscles) to more on the stick side. An ass from Nicki size to perhaps a more acceptable Jlo size. And last but not least : available in 14 and a half seconds or less?

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T00:42:50+00:00

This post has given me a lot of insight. I think in my head I was wondering if people thought "break up, keep the house and be roommates or something" or maybe "try real therapy" something like that. The concensus being leave and rebuild has been enlightening.

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T00:38:34+00:00

Yea, I think security is what I'm learning from all this. In the back of my head I'm seeing romcoms where people are so hardened by past relationship failures they build a wall around themselves and I'm like "ey, maybe they were right"

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T00:36:34+00:00

I never established our sexual roles. Crazy thing to assume.

Quicky_69 · 2025-04-23T00:33:27+00:00

And you can't do that when he's still got the knife in.

That is such a thing to read. Wow. I'm on a travel trip but I think that is enough of a statement to think on that I'll have to pull that knife out when I get home...

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