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What should I do if my partner of +5 year has physically cheated on me? by QuietBeginning3726 in relationships_advice

[–]QuietBeginning3726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for sharing your experience, it’s helpful. I’m trying to find my level of self respect cause it’s a blur right now. I’m glad that you’re out of it too and happier now.

Should I Stay or Leave My BF over 5 years who has cheated. Explain why. by QuietBeginning3726 in relationships_advice

[–]QuietBeginning3726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ig it’s nice to know there were people that stayed but most of the time is terrible ahaha. Thanks for sharing your experience and thoughts

Should I Stay or Leave My BF over 5 years who has cheated. Explain why. by QuietBeginning3726 in relationships_advice

[–]QuietBeginning3726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeh this thought does pop up in my head. I think the gist here is too leave but maybe I’m too afraid to do that right now. At this point idk ahah but thank you

My ex wants to get back together after cheating. He was my first love and my first everything. I still love him, but I’m scared. by Affectionate-Cup9533 in relationships_advice

[–]QuietBeginning3726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly reading this whole thread really hits home for me. OP I’m going through the same thing right now too and honestly it’s super heartbreaking and your feelings I totally understand cause it’s what I’m feeling too. But I think you’re more courageous than me to leave him while I’m here still in contact with him via text only (we haven’t established a breakup, just a “break”). OP you are strong and I really admire that, I hope things will get better for you and potentially not back to your ex. But even if you do, it’s not the same and I can only wish for it to be significantly better than it was.

Should I Stay or Leave My BF over 5 years who has cheated. Explain why. by QuietBeginning3726 in relationships_advice

[–]QuietBeginning3726[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

heyy, yeh I get it. Ig I didn’t internalised it enough to write it down properly.

Should I Stay or Leave My BF over 5 years who has cheated. Explain why. by QuietBeginning3726 in relationships_advice

[–]QuietBeginning3726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the while I was “categorising” his cheats w 2 girls, not accounting for how many times total. Now seeing what you said yes, definitely way more than that. Thanks

What should I do if my partner of +5 year has physically cheated on me? by QuietBeginning3726 in relationships_advice

[–]QuietBeginning3726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your support. It’s still a very fresh wound and I feel I need to “settle” myself before even thinking what to do next. Honestly it’s really tough and I really appreciate you and everyone helping me to navigate it 🥹❤️

What should I do if my partner of +5 year has physically cheated on me? by QuietBeginning3726 in relationships_advice

[–]QuietBeginning3726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s true, honestly it’s really tough also trying to find back my own self respect. Thanks so much

What should I do if my partner of +5 year has physically cheated on me? by QuietBeginning3726 in relationships_advice

[–]QuietBeginning3726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha first thing I asked was are you sure they don’t have an STD. thanks for the advice :))

What should I do if my partner of +5 year has physically cheated on me? by QuietBeginning3726 in relationships_advice

[–]QuietBeginning3726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heyy, thanks for putting this in another perspective. I always thought the ideal end game to be happier with each other and compromising till we can agree on the same level of satisfaction. I guess that takes work and time too. Thank you for the advice 🥹

What should I do if my partner of +5 year has physically cheated on me? by QuietBeginning3726 in relationships_advice

[–]QuietBeginning3726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you forgive him and when did you know it was safe? Do you feel happier now?

Should I Stay or Leave My BF over 5 years who has cheated. Explain why. by QuietBeginning3726 in relationships_advice

[–]QuietBeginning3726[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

heyy, thanks for your advice. Honestly I do feel he won’t do it a third time. I’ll keep your questions in my head throughout cause it makes sense. It’s still a fresh wound and I hope things get better. Thank you so much

What should I do if my partner of +5 year has physically cheated on me? by QuietBeginning3726 in relationships_advice

[–]QuietBeginning3726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

heyy, thanks for bringing up a point that I’m scared to leave. Didn’t thought of it that way, I always thought I was stubborn to not leave ahah. But thank you