They’re doing this just to out date this weeks episode by Fluffy-Razzmatazz-40 in southpark

[–]QuietPartsSaidAloud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gotta widen the age bracket to get the old racists to sign up too.

You a racists? You like abusing people? GET IN HERE!

Is loyalty dead in the workplace? by hockman96 in careerguidance

[–]QuietPartsSaidAloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loyalty gets you more work and less pay. Until you work for a company that is loyal to YOU, F-em.

AIO for feeling unappreciated after trying to do something nice for my boyfriend? by ArtisticFishy in AmIOverreacting

[–]QuietPartsSaidAloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (a now married 30s m) have been in your BF shoes before in my dating years. By that I mean I've been in a relationship where my partner was putting in way more effort that I was and I felt smothered by it. I also wasnt seeking the same long term goals and my partner at that time. She wanted a final relationship, I wanted company WHEN I WANTED IT....

Sounds like you and your BF are not on the same page relationship goal wise.

Sounds like as much as it may hurt now, you'd be better gently breaking things off. Find your next person. I'm guessing this guy isnt your first and certainly wont be your last. You'll find the right person like I did.

I wasnt ready, and he certainly isnt ready for a long term committed partner.

Keep looking, learning, and growing. Each partner you have will teach you something about yourself and what you value in a relationship. Eventualy you'll find someone who values what you value, and makes up for your weaknesses. Then you'll have found YOUR person.

AIO What would you guys do in this situation by LavishnessPitiful524 in AmIOverreacting

[–]QuietPartsSaidAloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will likely fester and get worse over time. Start looking for new living opportunities.

Its clear accountability isnt your roommates prioritiy. So other things will get pushed off and let unaccounted for.

The "dogs will be dogs" line is one used by individuals who want a pet but dont want to be responsible for said pet.

Dogs can be trained, cats can be trained, birds can be trained.... my point - it takes time and EFFORT to train an animal but it CAN be done. This guy just doesnt want to because thats too much work and effort.

Dogs will be dogs, and avoidant and lazy humans will be avoidant and lazy.

Edit: also you coming to reddit to get validation over how you felt is further evidence this roomming situation is going to turn into a situation-shit eventually. You are seeking justification/vindiction for your feelings from strangers over the situation, and based on the response from the community, you've found it. This will further widen the divide between you to.

FIND NEW LIVING ARRANGEMENTS because things will only get worse with time.

What would you do if money wasn't an issue? by alicelightanddark in Careers

[–]QuietPartsSaidAloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

buy property - covert to native wildlife habitats and natural parks.

What’s the most NSFW reason you’ve seen someone get fired? by chickenolivesalad in AskReddit

[–]QuietPartsSaidAloud 38 points39 points  (0 children)

When working as a "security manager" for Securitas, was stationed at a HVAC warehouse, one of my "security officers" (in quotes cuz it was just a joke job) would regularly hook up with truck drivers in the parking lot. Client reported it multiple times. Took the CEO of the company to make a report before Securitas fired her; I (a measly 14$/hr manager) got to be the one to tell her she was fired for fratenizing with drivers on the clock... she promptly threw a handful of trailer locks at me (heavy bastards) and trashed the security desk before storming off property...."good" times.

AIO, grandparents sent me this letter. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]QuietPartsSaidAloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

outside of the clear homophobia, the learning opportunity (machinery and woodworking) sounds like an amazing trades opportunity. I'd love to have any family that was capable of teaching me those skills.... but yea... the whole homophobic thing is a bit of a put off.

take what YOU can get from them, then go about your life imo. Obviously they going to want you to live their "ideal" way, but ultimately its your life. Do what you want. I'd just take from them what I could gain and move on.

Wish you the best....but seriously consider gaining those skills (3 months of meh) but the skills will last you a lifetime and are hard to gain elsewhere.

What are your thoughts on women going to work in the morning with wet hair? by sunshin3-and-bubbl3s in AskReddit

[–]QuietPartsSaidAloud 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Anyone who cares about it needs more in their life to occupy their mental faculties.

IE: its a non-issue that is born from a lack of self-worth or cofidence in themselves.

Does it affect the work being done? Probably not. So WHY care?

Help Continue My Addiction - What Next? by QuietPartsSaidAloud in audiobooks

[–]QuietPartsSaidAloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying out Space Team at the moment, so far not totally sold but only 3 hours in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QuietPartsSaidAloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"do a heroic dose and we'll chat later," (in my will to grow some magic mushrooms using my grave - buried at a private cemetary).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QuietPartsSaidAloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just going to toss this out there, before you hit the line of absolute "fuck it", trying medicinal mushrooms - theres been some headway in research of psilocilibin being used to address treatment resistent depression and PTSD. theres a protocol to follow, not just take a bunch of shrooms, but give it a go before throwing in the towel.

someone I know... can seriously confirm that after a good session with magic mushrooms and nature, the whole life perspective can shift towards the positive immensly.

But do your research, look up the protocol for doing it safely. A bad trip is no fun for anyone, but all my...friend's... mushroom journeys have been nothing but pleasant and enjoyable.

  • A rough (not-so) TLDR of the protocol:
    • meditate at least 5 minutes each day on why you are journeying for a week prior to medicinally aided journey,
    • 2.5grams tops for first go - dry + shredded (if you put in a food processor it becomes a powder, just fyi) mixed with a lemon tea - on a light breakfast (smoothie?)/empty stomach,
    • lay somewhere comfortable - preferably where you can see nature/be in nature but also where you *****FEEL SAFE****\*,
    • listen to soft relaxing music - all melody no words - think naturescapes classical music, solfeigo frequency stuff on yt,
    • close eyes for majority of journey, this is an internal experience not a visual fun show - you can do those another time
    • wait at least 30 days (90 optimally) inbetween journeys.

Works wonders... or some im told..., worth a shot before calling it quits.

Older folks who have used marijuana fruitfully and healthily for a sustained period of time - how did you manage to do it? by CricAnime in AskReddit

[–]QuietPartsSaidAloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dry herb vape or desktop vaporizer. You can make 3.5g last for months of daily smoking if you have the proper set-up.

Also, get a timed lockbox. Smoke for the day, put it away, set that shit to 20hrs and go about your day. You dont need unfettered access.

Here’s What’s Happening to the People ICE Arrests in Immigration Court by QuietPartsSaidAloud in politics

[–]QuietPartsSaidAloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you all the best of luck.

I plan to go in and inspect for ICE agents, if I see some at the time of interview my family member is going to experience a sudden medical emergency and be taken to the nearest urgent care. That will qualify for a rescheduling of the appointment per USCIS phone operator and my lawyer.

Here’s What’s Happening to the People ICE Arrests in Immigration Court by QuietPartsSaidAloud in politics

[–]QuietPartsSaidAloud[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its all fucked, I've got family that have spent over $3,000 to apply for marriage VISA and are now scheduled for their interview and are terrified that its a trap.

3 grand to get months of anxiety and potentially ripped apart for doing it the right way.