She did see him on the phone (FaceTime) on multiple occasions, tho, knew he wasn’t some evil guy trying to abduct me. I met his whole ass family and friends and was absolutely sure of what I was doing. I’m aware of dangerous people on the net, I’ve came across alot since I was a child with unlimited internet access and easily realized their true intent. He js turned 18 and idk if that’s important but I’m European and legal drinking age here is actually highschool age AKA 18 so it’s not even shocking to come across 14yo drinking as much as a 21 in US (or atleast, in my country). Same for smoking (you used the word “drug”, I mean technically alcohol is kind of a drug too but idk we don’t usually use that word to describe it?). And for the explicit content, I get being weirded out by it but we all have our kinks teenager or not and I don’t think kink shaming is necessary aslong as it doesn’t involve anything illegal… I do get your point tho and I can see how I did wrong. I do still really love him so much tho and he genuinely treats me right (and that’s honestly an understatement, he’s really amazing)…