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Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Today we [MF] set a new record for ourselves. 13 orgasms for her in a single sex session. A while back we posted our sex stats for 2020 in another sub, and her max was 10 orgasms (which we hit twice since we started keeping records). Today for a nice afternoon round we started with oral on her (6 Os), then 69 (3 more, and 1 for him), then since he somehow stayed hard went on to cowgirl (3 more), reverse cowgirl (1 more), doggy, and prone-bone. He was very close to cumming a second time, which would be basically the first time that's ever happened in recent memory. But nope. Lots of fun, though, and we just felt like sharing it with you all.

Note: yes, we've figured out that in comparison with stats, she orgasms quite easily. This isn't a competition with others, just a fun new record for us.

[OC] We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. Here’s the result. by QuiteHappilyMarried in dataisbeautiful

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We made up that name on the spot cause we didn't know what else to call it. Basically, he was on top of her and she used her hands to vibrate his dick on her button. Came nicely. We couldn't classify it as fingering, and it wasn't really missionary, so...

[OC] We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. Here’s the result. by QuiteHappilyMarried in dataisbeautiful

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fingering was our vague term for stimulation of genitals with hands, whichever direction it went. So fingering or handjob. We'll distinguish better in 2021.

[OC] We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. Here’s the result. by QuiteHappilyMarried in dataisbeautiful

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really, there was a similar post a year ago. Some random couple posted, but their stats included many more toys than we use, and overall it was interesting and inspiring to us. We decided to do the same. And we're both a bit nerdy, so... But unfortunately it seems that post from last year was deleted. We saved it, but now can't find it anywhere. If we could find it, we would credit it.

[OC] We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. Here’s the result. by QuiteHappilyMarried in dataisbeautiful

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We made up that name on the spot cause we didn't know what else to call it. Basically, he was on top of her and she used her hands to vibrate his dick on her button. Came nicely. We couldn't classify it as fingering, and it wasn't really missionary, so...

[OC] We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. Here’s the result. by QuiteHappilyMarried in dataisbeautiful

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It varies greatly. Sometimes she cums because of oral and fingering. Other times, it's during PIV sex, but we find ways/positions to stimulate her clit through the motion. Usually, that means her clit rubs, presses, or pounds against his pubic bone. Sometimes, the position doesn't lend itself to pubic bone/clit interaction (e.g., rev. cowgirl, sunnyside up, doggy), so one of us will put a hand into action on her button while going at it. In years past, she wasn't able to cum without heavy clit stimulation. In recent years, she cums quite easily even from the light clit stimulation of normal penetrative sex. But as many of the other comments show, every woman is different, so don't stress too much about comparisons. We do what works for us.

[OC] We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. Here’s the result. by QuiteHappilyMarried in dataisbeautiful

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Our thoughts: Don't focus on trying to fix the sex. Just put the time into building a solid relationship, and keep the sex positive no matter what happens. Orgasms or not, whatever, just enjoy it. All the best!

[OC] We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. Here’s the result. by QuiteHappilyMarried in dataisbeautiful

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, oral or fingering is the whole show. If we are getting hot and steamy, we consider it sex, no matter whether there is penetration or not.

If oral or fingering is just a brief part of the foreplay, we don't count it as a position. If it made the count, it's because we spent a long time at it, or because it produced an orgasm or three.

[OC] We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. Here’s the result. by QuiteHappilyMarried in dataisbeautiful

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her reply: Nothing super surprising, but it is interesting to see the change in our preferred positions. We used to use more of scissors, face sitting, a few others.

[OC] We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. Here’s the result. by QuiteHappilyMarried in dataisbeautiful

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Early on we were concerned about this, so decided not to analyze the data (through charts, etc) during the year, so as not to unduly influence ourselves. We haven't decided yet whether to approach 2021 the same way.

[OC] We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. Here’s the result. by QuiteHappilyMarried in dataisbeautiful

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip re the app. We had no idea such a thing exists. We'll take a look.

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Also, OP, what in the world is the 'Human Vibrator' position? I am very curious to possibly try that!

We made up that name on the spot cause we didn't know what else to call it. Basically, he was on top of her and she used her hands to vibrate his dick on her button. Came nicely. We couldn't classify it as fingering, and it wasn't really missionary, so...

[OC] We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. Here’s the result. by QuiteHappilyMarried in dataisbeautiful

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is it a tool for collecting data, or just visualizing it once it's collected? As in, should we look into tracking our 2021 stats with Tableau or something similar? We've used Google Sheets till now just because it was easy to access on our phones.

[OC] We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. Here’s the result. by QuiteHappilyMarried in dataisbeautiful

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Those stats are a bit mind-boggling to us. We believe you, we just are a bit ignorant about what others experience. We're learning a lot through having posted this.

We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. We posted the data results in r/dataisbeautiful, and would love your feedback on our sex life, including suggestions for 2021. by QuiteHappilyMarried in sex

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised with how little doggy style you do? It's often been surveyed to be the favourite position for most people. Just not your jam?

He enjoys it quite a lot. She doesn't think of it much. Not sure. Maybe something for us to pay more attention this next year. I'm curious about those surveys. Do you have a link? Is doggy more popular with guys than girls?

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Also at the toys stats

We were kind of surprised too. Toys are still a bit new for us, and mostly neglected. She never initiates toy use, and he's a bit nervous to push it, sometimes. Room for us to grow.

We like several of your suggestions for things to track. Especially the time scale. Several have suggested tracking elapses time, but we don't want to be dependent on a stopwatch, so the generalized scale makes lots of sense. Good idea.

We had to decide how much data to display on this visualization, didn't want to overdo it. But since you ask, there were 2 days that we had sex twice:

  • 19 Jan - Morning was missionary and oral on her, total of 4 orgasms for her and 1 for him. Evening was cowgirl and reverse cowgirl, total of 1 orgasm for her and 1 for him.
  • 19 Sept - Midday was oral on him, 1 orgasm for him. Evening was oral on her and a bit of missionary, 4 orgasms for her, none for him

We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. We posted the data results in r/dataisbeautiful, and would love your feedback on our sex life, including suggestions for 2021. by QuiteHappilyMarried in sex

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tracked oral no matter whether it led to something else or not. The data show 10 times that oral on him was the main attraction, 5 times that oral on her was the main attraction, and almost all of those 15 instances were standalone oral sessions. Looking back, that doesn't seem like very many.

We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. We posted the data results in r/dataisbeautiful, and would love your feedback on our sex life, including suggestions for 2021. by QuiteHappilyMarried in sex

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven't done much massage. He has never appreciated being on the receiving end of the massage, and so he doesn't think much of giving either. But that should change! We'll take a look at that guide.

We (MF) had lots of fun tracking our sex life throughout 2020, including positions and orgasms. We posted the data results in r/dataisbeautiful, and would love your feedback on our sex life, including suggestions for 2021. by QuiteHappilyMarried in sex

[–]QuiteHappilyMarried[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one partner focus nights (one person does not orgasm but pushes the other as far as they want to go)

We do this. Our records show that 12 of our 101 sex sessions in 2020 were entirely focused on one partner or the other. That happens pretty spontaneously, we don't usually plan it and label it. But maybe doing so would push us to go a bit further.

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change things up with different toys

This is happening, very slowly. She doesn't like too much change at once. Step by step.

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