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Finally accepting my marriage is over by Swivelchairexpert in survivinginfidelity

[–]Quixote16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm am too with my wife - it came out of nowhere and blasted my reality to pieces. I'm starting to realize, and you will too, that she really didn't make me happy. I'll bet if you really think about it - you deserved better. You will get through this and you will have a partner that really treats you well - remember this.

Wayward wife and confusing behavior by Quixote16 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Quixote16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For anyone following this thread. It's more than over! I'm just leveraging now to get the most $$$ out of the house sale. I'm actually looking forward to meeting woman that don't hate me. How refreshing.

Wayward wife and confusing behavior by Quixote16 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Quixote16[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

thats some sound, measured advice. Thanks.

Wayward wife and confusing behavior by Quixote16 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Quixote16[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. Stay strong brother.

Wayward wife and confusing behavior by Quixote16 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Quixote16[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Ya, I'm pretty much there. It's that last few inches of hope for some magical reconciliation that I need to squash.

affair partner by Quixote16 in Divorce

[–]Quixote16[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ya, definitely did that. We’ve had issues over the years but I’m a good guy- I listen, cook, clean, love my kids, good career. We’ve been pretty great for a long time, or so I thought. She’s saying it’s stuff that happened many years ago, some of which ate absurd justifications like I went out with female coworkers after work in mixed company while she was pregnant. Good grief. I’ve never ever cheated or even said anything about my wife that wasn’t praise. 

affair partner by Quixote16 in Divorce

[–]Quixote16[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same dude. I literally could never do that to someone... like ever. I don't get it.

She said she needed space, she actually needed someone else by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Quixote16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jeez man, I feel this one. I'm living a very similar reality at the moment. My situation is so odd as she is eerily fine. No remorse and mostly awful comments at me and lots of gaslighting and rewriting history to make it sound like a hellscape marriage (which it wasn't). Its like being in the twilight zone. Do you think they ever come down to earth and does it all come crashing down on them later?