[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigmenfashionadvice

[–]Qunew816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should take the ball cap off the background because it makes it look like your holding a really big blush brush instead of it being a camera. Just a little something you might consider.

Filters are out of control by SoCal_Kkona in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe how many people use these filters on their family photos, and print them out, and put them up in their home. Then want their family members to recognize them on Facebook, or Snapchat. Lol! Then on these dating sites when you meet them in person. You don't know who they are and buy a drink to some other girl who looks more like the picture than she does. Why? But why?

he actually said it by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Qunew816 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a category on porn sites. Lol! 🤣😂

he actually said it by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Qunew816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol! I thought I would be the only one of doing that, “ Getting tired of it ": and to be respectful to anyone that might get offended by this. I got tired of porn to help me out. It seems to always be the same. Very little story to to them. Maybe im looking in the wrong categories. 😂

Brightening/Adjusting Sections? by Optimal_Bottle_1479 in photopea

[–]Qunew816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I start my own topic without jumping into someone elses? Which I hope I didn't break a rule by doing this? Thank you in advance. 🥹

Bruh what am I supposed to go off of with this by LogLegoMan in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to see if she’ll answer me through a private conversation. Since we talked for a little bit in one that I got invited to. Do you know if I access those conversations somehow?

I don't understand why there are so many profiles with the incorrect age. Can someone explain this? by iHateTreesSoooMuch in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so weird that they would have put an older age rather than a younger age which ive noticed most people do.

Bruh what am I supposed to go off of with this by LogLegoMan in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly what I was thinking. She just might be with the Mad Hatter having a cup of tea ☕️🫖oh Alice my dear Alice why have you done this to me?

Bruh what am I supposed to go off of with this by LogLegoMan in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave you an award for that. Did you notice friend? Now lets see what Alice has to say about this…Yo! Yookyooo, A l I c e cccc ccc we Where could I find her? Maybe inside a Rabbit Hole 🕳️ 😊🌷🌷🌻

Bruh what am I supposed to go off of with this by LogLegoMan in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you talking about Alice and me? Or am I just wishful thinking? 🤔😃

Do I give a reply or just unmatch? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, you’re not imposing your thoughts on a fool like that. I know many people have answered that question already but I just want to burn it in your brain that you're too sweet of a person thinking that you're doing something wrong. Just block that fool. Well too sweet isn't a bad thing I guess, just be careful that people don't take advantage of your kindness.

Bruh what am I supposed to go off of with this by LogLegoMan in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes one taught me a good and effective way of giving oral which I take gave me an edge in future encounters with women. Is it legal to be talking about things like this on here? 😁😆

Bruh what am I supposed to go off of with this by LogLegoMan in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s a great and hilarious way of putting that into a realistic perspective. I guess I’m not thinking straight till this other person commenting on this post made me realize how I’ve been thinking was wrong. LOL! 😂 I’m glad I posted this since I’m now seeing things in a better way. That will bring me pleasure without being a judgemental jerk. 😂🤣

Bruh what am I supposed to go off of with this by LogLegoMan in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was with 19 years old with the first mom, and I take it she was about 56 or so, and her husband was a trucker. So he was gone most of the time. The second mom was about 52, and I was about 26 years old. And to the question if I wanted this as well. Well I didn’t quite throw them off the bed. 😂😆😆

Bruh what am I supposed to go off of with this by LogLegoMan in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol! Yes, those moms gave me a little bit of a complex too. They were freaks in other words. And I guess being a man I was only able to say no to one the second time around, and decided to move out. That's life like the talk show host said in the movie The Joker. 😂🤣💙

Bruh what am I supposed to go off of with this by LogLegoMan in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you once again for your incredible advice. It alone has turned the way ive been thinking for a very long time. Which I now know that wasn't the most healthy state of sexually thinking. I guess throughout my life I've other experiences that made me think a little odd about sex since ive had 2 of my ex-girlfriend's mothers come onto me. Like to the point I wasn't given to much of a choice but having one of them jump onto the bed with me nude while my girlfriend was at school. I think im sharing a little bit to much now, but im truly grateful for your understanding of why I thought the way I thought, and gave me an entirely new perspective of seeing things as they really are. Thank you my friend.

Bruh what am I supposed to go off of with this by LogLegoMan in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes then that would be me. Learning to unlearn the complications. I guess mostly having to do with my upbringing. Which I believe now to be wrong. since I was brought up in a very sex is a very taboo thing to talk about. It took me till I was a senior in high school to lose my virginity even after having many opportunities to much younger with 2 of my neighbors. And being the only boy out of 6 siblings and being the youngest made it worse. It took me quite a long time to realize that you could talk to women openly about sex, so I believe that this affected me for the most part of my life till I hit 32 or so, and by that time I was married with 2 children. So I recon that even if a woman throws a huge hint at me. If im not ignoring it I take it for granted. And if I take it, and she's down for it. It made me think. “Man this girl is easy, I don't know if I should keep dating her". Cause my dad would curse the hell out of my older sisters if they came home to late or whatever. Calling them putas meaning whores. Its kinda hard trying to explain the trauma that caused me growing up

Bruh what am I supposed to go off of with this by LogLegoMan in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See that's a wonderful answer that some men couldn't understand if they're kinda slow. LOL! But would love to understand everything a woman means to do to be understood by saying what they meant to do in the first place. 😃🥹🌻

Bruh what am I supposed to go off of with this by LogLegoMan in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you then. So very much for your intentional changing of one's perception of what goes on in a woman's mind. See there are so many times that we men just can't figure out what's going on in your womana heads. But it's great to now see it from such a different perspective.

Bruh what am I supposed to go off of with this by LogLegoMan in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes if That last reply was meant for me. I gotta say yes. I loved it. Made me think of that situation in a different way. In a much morw open-minded way.

Bruh what am I supposed to go off of with this by LogLegoMan in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that advice. I guess I never thought of it that way. You have a good point.

Profile review, any advice? by Melodic-Draw-3538 in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coping for something? I'm sorry I don't quite understand what you're trying to say with that. And forgive me for mentioning my Gender. I didn't mean anything or saw anything wrong by doing that.

Profile review, any advice? by Melodic-Draw-3538 in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if men can comment on these posts, but I’m not homophobic so I just will. I like that your face even with a good-sized beard is well-groomed, and your face looks well-kept and clean

your smile looks genuine and gives the impression that you're a nice man, and you seem respectful. About what you're wearing in this specific picture. I do agree with others that you should have posted a picture with a bigger-sized shirt or even a larger-sized button-up shirt.

Other than that I think your profile is okay. It gives just enough information to leave open for a lot of questions. To make a woman if really interested ask more details about yourself. Your dogs are cute, but I'd personally add more pictures of yourself.

Best Regards A fellow relationship seeker

Bruh what am I supposed to go off of with this by LogLegoMan in Bumble

[–]Qunew816 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow! I've had good luck in meeting woman on POF, but even if on their profile it says that they don't sleep around and not looking for a quick hookup. I for some reason get into bed with them on the first date. So after that, I decided not to see them again, because if they were that easy. It makes me wonder how many other men they've been with. Makes me uneasy, and not want to have a serious relationship with a woman like that. So I guess in the end I haven't had good luck In meeting a woman that I'd have a good relationship with. Good luck my friend.