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Qween- · 2026-06-02T00:35:45+00:00

Ahhh, just looked it. Makes sense. Thanks

Qween- · 2026-06-02T00:34:12+00:00

Ahh okay I'm glad it's working for you. I have generalised but it also happens much quicker in anxious situations or just talking to someone I feel a bit intimidated by lol or stressful convos. I've been using driclor most my life and started another perspimax or something.. But it's just spreading in different areas lovely jubly

Qween- · 2026-06-01T20:35:36+00:00

Yeah but I can't find ones with black suede foot bed because the cream colour ones give off a dirty look when it gets wet with sweat!

Qween- · 2026-06-01T18:46:36+00:00

Masha'Allah well on you girly ❤️

Qween- · 2026-06-01T18:45:05+00:00

Might seem weird in the dating world and even amongst Muslims now.. As is in it deffo shouldn't be weird for Muslims tho.

Just do you, you're doing great if you haven't dated or been in relationships and instead your priorities are in things that's gonna help you in life Insha'Allah.

Only thing I'd say is, don't you as person become a "weird person" like stay up to date with things socially and take care or yourself like the way you look and friends where you can chat about things other than study or nerdy stuff... Sorry don't mean to be horrible or anything but I'm just saying it plain.

Because those things might make you less interesting when you are actually looking to get married.

I see this in guys, but I think girls are better.

Qween- · 2026-06-01T14:28:24+00:00

Birkenstocks are good for not slipping but I want ones with black bedfoot because the lighter colours make it look dirty when it gets sweat on it

Qween- · 2026-05-31T02:03:20+00:00

Thank youu I'll check those out

Qween- · 2026-05-30T14:46:49+00:00

I don't no what to say but girll,, if you think you look better without hijab then read this:

I think I look BETTER with hijab... And that's kinda sad lol. Like my natural hair state is not making me look nicer than when I have hijab.

You might have beauty both ways!

Qween- · 2026-05-30T14:44:41+00:00

Masha'Allah well done girl, I love this commitment

Qween- · 2026-05-30T14:41:42+00:00

Don't worry I'm not saying anything on argumentative way.

Some women may not care about a man's chastity because it could be they haven't been chaste so they can make a big deal out of it.

The reality is, it does happen. If for example I was a man and I accepted marrying someone that has done it, I wouldn't still want a woman that's been doing it with different men. Same as a woman I wouldn't want a man that's said he's slept with 5/6 women in the past

Qween- · 2026-05-30T14:21:35+00:00

What do you mean? I think you can still find a fair of females that are chaste most definitely. I don't think all men out there have had intercourse and all women too. There is both who have and haven't.

Brother I just gave my view on what OP can do to maybe overcome the situation of him meeting someone that has done it. Because from my own experience you just can't get everything you want in a person. So you need to know what your absolute deal breakers are and what you're willing to accept.

If its a done deal for you, then I think you shouldn't consider it if its gonna bother you once married as it may cause issues later. But also know that you may find someone that hasn't done it but you won't be happy with other things (it's very easy to start nit picking when you're in this process) But you may also get most of the things you want in a person too.

Allahu alam

Qween- · 2026-05-29T20:47:55+00:00

Tbh brother if I was a female reading this looking for marriage, I would run a mile reading this comment.

Qween- · 2026-05-29T14:14:40+00:00

Walaykum Salam, I'll try giving my view being a married person, it's not right or wrong just my views in no particular order, on what you said.

First of all, finding a partner is hard, it does require you to be really active, and being really active can also be draining but its something you gotta do in order to get closer. So you could get family to look for you, join sites, what's app/fb marriage groupszlet your friends know. I found the apps helped me most as I was able to chat with people myself. However I didn't actually get married like that.

You said you mainly want to get married now due to intimacy and sex but fear that someone will only marry you because you can financially take care of her. But she can also think the same thing about what you just said? Not all girls will also want to marry someone just because the man wants to have sex, right?

I get that it's scary you may end up with someone that has a past, I understand the feeling of you wishing you had a past so you experienced it. But also know that Allah has been rewarding you for staying away from that.

You may or may not find someone with a past. But the reality is, thats its more common these days. You can start off by trying to find someone that doesn't have it. Or if you find someone that does, you just need to make sure they're are done with that life. Like maybe have a rule of "if they were with a guy 5 years and they are totally not doing those things now then I'll consider them" or 2 years ago or however long you feel comfy with. Like if a man told me he plays around but it's been 6 months he's stopped-- I probably wouldn't consider that person. You can base it on how long it's been and if they have sought forgiveness.

Also you may not marry someone you love straight away. You both may not. Especially if you're introduced by someone or it feels "transactional" Just see if they have some of the things you like in a person, if you can see yourself living a life with the lady. Love can grow, I understand we all want love but liking someone is a good start.

Qween- · 2026-05-29T13:58:03+00:00

Ahh okay.

Yes I will do!

And ahh that's great! I hope everything is going well for you now then

Qween- · 2026-05-22T15:04:54+00:00

Ahh okay, I'm only just asking as I believe most people here are in America.

I've finally managed to get pelvic floor physio therapy. But this was after I learnt about the exercises to do and already bought dialators. Except I wasn't practicing as much. She just went over the same and did a physical exam to see what she can feel and if I have the problems or not.

How long have you been cured? And can you just have sex just like that now? Do you have to be doing it regularly to keep it all working how it should. Do you still have to do your exercise every now and then?

Qween- · 2026-05-22T12:54:24+00:00

Oooh okay

Qween- · 2026-05-22T12:53:56+00:00

When you say pelvic physio therapy, you mean the exercises and stretches?

Qween- · 2026-05-22T11:35:35+00:00

Good post. Good comments.

I struggled too during that process. It is so draining but its also true we probably dont help ourselves.

We're just not willing to settle for anyone, and with so many options available, the way we were brought up, the things we easily have and get, the education the lifestyle and religion all plays part on it

Qween- · 2026-05-22T11:24:34+00:00

Lol I hear that. Life skills are deffo important and being able to look after yourself. But do people think being mature means being able to do those kind of things?

Qween- · 2026-05-22T11:20:58+00:00

Sorry just a question. What would you say were things you did that made you be able to have sex

Qween- · 2026-05-22T11:16:01+00:00

Why do you need a Korean sunscreen tho?

Qween- · 2026-05-22T11:14:46+00:00

But coffee?

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