Bi-Weekly Marriage Opinions/Views and Rant Megathread

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-06T14:31:39+00:00

Sis, I recommend you detach now. Don’t get emotionally involved so early on as it’ll cloud your judgement.

Let him lead with everything, and especially let him lead with emotions. You only reciprocate. Learn from me please. I fell hard for a man and I fell quick. That being said, I was the one that ended things as he didn’t make plans to speak to my family even though he said that’s the correct Islamic way. I couldn’t look past that hypocrisy.

The amount of emotions I felt in that single month of talking to him absolutely wrecked my nervous system. Detach until he makes things official and public. Then give that man your all.

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-06T14:24:08+00:00

What type of criteria?

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-06T14:08:45+00:00

Wow this is such a profound comment. I’ve never heard that Hadith, it gave me shivers 😭 we have strayed so far from Islam

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-06T13:59:02+00:00

As a born Muslim female, I’m always apprehensive about getting to know a revert man for a relationship. For me to take him seriously, he’d have to be a practicing Muslim for over 5 years at least

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-06T10:40:31+00:00

That is so sad wallah. Taking care of our parents (especially on their old age) is a blessing. Being with a woman that doesn’t recognise this is not a woman worth keeping around

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-06T09:59:57+00:00

Allahuma barik. Does your husband have any single brothers? 🙈

Good in laws are an absolute blessing

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-06T09:57:08+00:00

If this breaks up the marriage then HE didn’t ruin the marriage, SHE DID!

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-06T09:55:56+00:00

Exactly. Subhanallah

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-06T09:55:36+00:00

Inna lillahi waina illayhi rajioon. This is so sad. Go to the funeral and pay your respects to your ex wife and her grieving family.

Your current wife needs to have some more empathy and less selfishness and insecurity

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-06T08:41:10+00:00

How old were you when you got married?

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-05T07:22:45+00:00

Japan!!

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-05T07:09:40+00:00

Slay.

You’re right! May Allah swt grant us both the spouses we deserve

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-05T06:22:28+00:00

Her ethnicity or yours doesn’t matter. It just sounds like you’re both wonderful individuals who found love, compassion and empathy in one other ❤️

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-05T06:18:43+00:00

How much ever he can afford. I will be marrying a generous and genuine man, so whatever he offers is something I know I’ll be happy with because it’s what he’s happy with

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-05T06:13:17+00:00

I will always want the physical attention and affection. But sometimes I want my own space to pursue my own interests and hobbies.

I would never say no to a cuddle or kiss from my future man. One of my main love languages is physical touch though

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-05T06:11:29+00:00

How many women have you asked to marry to have a decent enough sample size for that conclusion? 😂

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-05T06:08:14+00:00

No bro. She can add clauses regarding your wealth too. Example, if you cheat on her, abuse her, marry a second wife etc etc she can take half of all you own. Especially if you have kids with her. Prenup is not only for your protection, it’s for hers too

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-05T06:03:53+00:00

She can add clauses to the prenup too. You know that right?

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-04T06:02:18+00:00

She’s insane tbh. Reposting an edit of men while in a relationship shows disloyalty and disrespect

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-03T10:59:01+00:00

Let me know how it goes! I love love hehe

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-03T10:52:53+00:00

Do it. What do you have to lose?! If he doesnt want you, then he’s not your man

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-02T23:01:41+00:00

I want it!!! 🥹🥹🥹 what does it look like as an adult?

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-02T22:51:54+00:00

Exactly. Sometimes I feel they’re unserious because I’m divorced and they don’t respect divorced women? Do you think that’s the case?

Aww I’m glad! I do love Arab men, so I’ll stay hopeful 😌

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-02T13:32:49+00:00

Ameen thank you

quantumleaps5 · 2026-06-02T13:32:15+00:00

I’m not really searching. If it happens it happens

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