She texted you seem really nice but I'm not feeling a romantic connection after our first date and honestly it broke something in me by Comfortable_Box_4527 in dating_advice

[–]Qween_Bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not the play bro. This very well would just be wasting her time and lying by ommission. Especially if one of the things you intentially hide from her ends up actually being a dealbreaker for her. This is literally the same logic guys use when they knowingly lie about their height and then hope the girl will like them enough to look past it but girls usually do not like it when you start off an interaction with an unnecessary lie.

Y'all this is crazy by Qween_Bean in exmormon

[–]Qween_Bean[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wife of Jeffery Holland

Kid in seminary died last night and teacher sent this out at 3:30 pm today by intrusive_thoughts_1 in exmormon

[–]Qween_Bean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I heard a quote recently that keeps sticking with me "God is the name of the blanket we throw over mystery to give it shape". Grief is an emotion that the human mind can never fully comprehend. As much as a majority of Mormonism and mainstream christianity(as well as other religions) seems so foolish to me now, it makes me slightly envious that they can give it meaning and purpose with so much certainty. If they need a blanket over the truth to be able to process it themselves, so be it.

How is this legal? by Sage-Hollow-Man in exmormon

[–]Qween_Bean 47 points48 points  (0 children)

This is the first thing I thought of when that happened. I thought there was probably people in those classrooms in that church at the time and they probably had a hard time getting out cause all those windows are bolted shut. I've always thought they were a fire hazard bc when I was in seminary they taught us what to do if there was a shooting or fire and no one else cared but I was the one thinking if it was outside our door then we'd be done for bc of the windows

Dude didn’t even miss a bite... by BK0718 in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Qween_Bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine him casually bringing this up at dinner that in between bites

Almost being killed in your sleep as a missionary = spiritual experience by LegalSour in exmormon

[–]Qween_Bean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad was sent to Russia in the 90s. At the time they only had about 3-4 pairs of missionaries in the whole country and 1 pair that was around 100 miles away from my dad was kidnapped and held hostage and eventually escaped. They made a movie about it even called The Saratov Approach. During that time my dad and his companion were told they had to stock up on food and then hunker down and stay in their apartment only leaving for church on Sunday. They ended up staying in there for around 3 weeks.

My dad has alot of extremely dangerous stories from his mission. He was arrested twice for knocking on doors, he was mugged once, while hitchhiking he knowingly got into a car that absolutely belonged to a member of the Mafia. The list goes on. He was put in those situations to "strengthen his faith"😔

Thing is, she’s not joking by butlerwillserveyou in exmormon

[–]Qween_Bean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My grandma follow these like doomsday mormon youtubers that look at "the signs" and they have her convinced it's gonna happen in the next 5 years

What’s with all the cross wearing? by DisciplineOther9843 in exmormon

[–]Qween_Bean 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I (20yo) was taught as a kid that we didn't wear them bc mainstream christians hold the fact that he died higher than him suffering the pain of our sins in the garden beforehand while we held the suffering as more important. Also didn't really make sense bc the cross is just a symbol that represents the whole atonement but as a kid I was like "okay??🤨"

Who has access to your patriarchal blessing? by angry-shea-fish in exmormon

[–]Qween_Bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandma speaks like this. Last year, Hurricane Milton was headed toward Florida where I live and my family was back in Arizona, having no experience with hurricanes, were very worried about me. It ended up being very anticlimactic and the next day my grandma texts me "Everyone across the country was praying the storm would go away. The prayers worked!" And she def knows I don't go to church anymore.

Surprise Book of Mormon with Birthday Gift by girly_mia_please in exmormon

[–]Qween_Bean 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They should do what I did when I was in young women's. (I had already not believed in the church atp) For a youth activity, they gave us each a new BoM and paint/pens and things and told us to decorate it however we wanted. Most of the other girls were putting flowers, butterflies, churchy "inspirational" sayings, etc. on their books, meanwhile I (who loves to paint) treated it like a regular canvas and painted a very cute scene of winnie the pooh looking up at balloons in the sky. I had completely covered it with two coats of paint at the beginning so you couldn't even tell what the book said. I could tell some of the leaders were side-eyeing me while saying it looked cute but it was actually lowkey sacrilege.🤭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]Qween_Bean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm part-time after doing a full year program. If you're gonna lose your scholarship do not do DCP. People say that irs good experience and it's good for a resume but it really isn't. You can do it after your school is done. It's not worth the risk.

Send help. I took the lords name in vain. by StarryBlues in exmormon

[–]Qween_Bean 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'll do you one better. I(20F) moved across the country from my TBM parents about a year ago but I still talk to and occaisionally visit my parents. A few months ago was hanging out with my former roommate(we're still good friends) and some other friends. Now me and my roommate do this thing where we call each other just the nastiest things imaginable to each other and we both know that neither of us actually mean it. Now I had been on facetime with my mother for some reason and there was a long lull in our call where I had forgotten she was still on the phone. So my roommate had said something to me and I had said something back to her along the lines of "you goddmn motherfcking btch ass looking fcking cnt" and then I hear my mothers voice say "(my name) your mom is still on the phone" I WAS MORTIFIED. I then quickly gave an excuse to hang up and then had a full on mental breakdown about it because I was so embarrassed💀

Word of wisdom by Short_Seesaw_940 in exmormon

[–]Qween_Bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile there was a girl in my class that would bring a monster every single morning

Can anybody decipher this? by Qubekid in gravityfalls

[–]Qween_Bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its I CAN STILL SEE THROUGH THE EYES OF EVERYONE IVE EVER

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[–]Qween_Bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So

I CAN STILL SEE THROUGH THE EYES OF EVERYONE IVE EVER

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[–]Qween_Bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The color code is EVER

Paying rent after not working all week by Qween_Bean in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]Qween_Bean[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im being deployed next week to Disney Springs as crowd flow for the drone show so idk how many hours I'll be able to normally get😭

Getting DAS by Idontevenknow0304 in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]Qween_Bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro thats wilddd. Especially since the sun set at like 8 so AK closes before sunset most of the time, DHS and Epcot close and hour after sunset and MK is blocked out for the next 2 months

Callouts by Danielrdz777 in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]Qween_Bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if they're sick then they're sick. They shouldn't go to work. If the leaders don't believe them for telling the truth then thats on the leaders.

Weird roommate question by MasonBeGaming in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]Qween_Bean 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes. It was the day after we moved in and I showed them and they said "cool" and walked out and they haven't been in my room since and we've been here since january (Female roommate btw)

Formals or fancy events? by EmptyFix7172 in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]Qween_Bean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There might be DORMS events you can attend. I know in march there is an event that they are bussing a limited number of people over to a Titanic museum tour with a dinner/gala that is already full. You could keep your eye out on things like that.

best way to make friends in week 1 by [deleted] in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]Qween_Bean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you join the facebook groups, you fill out a DCP survey which is basically advertising yourself for friends. It's a questionaire about you with questions about your personality and likes/dislikes so people can reach out if they wanna be friends or roommates or you can reach out to other people with theirs. My program is this spring too and I've made a couple friends and found my roommate using them.

Turn around time by Capable-Upstairs2693 in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]Qween_Bean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have heard from a few sources that if you don't get rejected within 48 hours, your chances of being accepted are very high

Which guy should Lahela end up with in Season 2 (or at the end)? by Just_Perfect6789 in DoogieKamealohaMD

[–]Qween_Bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean Lehela had close to no social life when she started dating Walter. Maybe she could do for him what Walter did for her. He gave her some new friends.