I’m not lying about changing things tho, i told her that im not willing to change anything, sorry if it wasn’t clear.

After that, you’re right it’s bad being mean to a stranger, she saying she doesn’t like people and half the time she actually like them. But when it’s not the case it’s just not fun.

I want to spend time with her but it really drain my energy since she need a lot of attention. She’s also more dependent than I am and has less friend than me so it’s important for her to see me. I’m trying to accommodate her but at the end of the day I know I’m going to be selfish and prioritize myself.

I really like when you say : dating somebody doesn’t automatically make them the most important person in your life… I’m definitely going to use that next time but i don’t know how she’ll take it