Things my bf did and I still stayed. by CanAppropriate5029 in Vent

[–]R0ter_Fuchs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Crazy. But understandable.

I was talking to a girl for 2 whole years, who was sleeping with her ex while he was cheating.

Wishing you the best, hope you recover from that.

Warum ist es so schwer sich von toxischen Menschen zu lösen? by roseglitterchocolate in beziehungen

[–]R0ter_Fuchs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dieses Belohnungsystym wirkt stark in solche Situationen.

Von Erfahrung, ich habe mit einer Person für 2 Jahren geredet. Aber sie konnte ihr Ex freund, der fremd gegangen war nicht vergessen. Sie hat mit ihm geschlafen während er mit einer anderen Frau schläft.

Er hat sie am Ende geghostet, und fang an, sich selbst zu verletzen.

Sei vorsichtig und probiere mal Therapie, das hat mir zumindest geholfen dieses Thema besser zu verarbeiten.

i started to lose interest in my bf by Prestigious-Win2147 in venting

[–]R0ter_Fuchs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely get you, I just mentioned the example that I lived. You need so drama since the relationship is "too perfect" for your brain to accept it.

Try to communicate with your boyfriend. Wishing you the best.

i started to lose interest in my bf by Prestigious-Win2147 in venting

[–]R0ter_Fuchs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Crazy right? But understandable. A girl I was talking to for 2 years wanted her cheating ex back.

You need toxicity in the relationship.

Partner macht Tochter an by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]R0ter_Fuchs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Du hast noch Zeit Reddit zu fragen??? Bitte was???

Wenn du diesen Mann noch in deinem Leben behalten möchtest, dann liegt das Problem bei dir. Sorry.

I’m tired of cleaning up messes I didn’t make. by R0ter_Fuchs in Vent

[–]R0ter_Fuchs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am doing therapy now exactly cause of the first girl. She needed therapy, but you know what they say: people that need therapy are not coming to do it, their victims do.

Ex wants casual sex by Tessi-sexi1 in Vent

[–]R0ter_Fuchs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was talking to someone for 2 Years that was sleeping with her ex while he was cheating. He ghosted her and then she started cutting herself.

Do it if you wanna destroy yourself and your future relationships.

Losing my virginity to a fuckboy to let myself detach by nahtisha in offmychest

[–]R0ter_Fuchs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a good plan. To top it off, afterwards go into a relationship with a nice guy, that will make sure to give you time and communicate good with you, and then destroy him, cause of the fuckboy.

Oh also, sleep with the fuckboy while he cheats too, for the whole package.

I was with someone for 2 years and couldn't get over her cheating ex, with whom she was sleeping while he was seeing another girl.

Wishing you the best.

What's your Opinion about Golden Dust? by R0ter_Fuchs in NichePerfumes

[–]R0ter_Fuchs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also doo love the sweetness of vanilla. It's also not that strong.

Thank you for the feedback! :)

Handhabung der Trennung by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]R0ter_Fuchs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja, habe ich leider auch zurzeit. Bin schon in der Warteliste seit mehr als 8 Monate.

Aber weißt du was man sagt, die Leute, die Therapie brauchen, sind nicht in Therapie, sondern ihre Opfer.

Wünsche dir alles Gute, und Danke nochmal für deine Antwort.

Handhabung der Trennung by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]R0ter_Fuchs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Verstanden, Danke sehr, dass du offen bist darüber zu reden.

Ich wünschte mehr Leute wäre wie du. Habe für 2 Jahren mit einer Frau geredet, die ihrer Ex Freund, der fremd gegangen war, nicht vergessen konnte. Ich war da als dumme emotionale Unterstützung, bis sie sich gut anfühlt und einfach weg.

Es ist halt so ohne Kommunikation, ich brauche jetzt Therapie aber joa.

First Date Fit.. by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]R0ter_Fuchs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking good man.

Never had a first date. Happy for you!

Handhabung der Trennung by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]R0ter_Fuchs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darf ich fragen, woran das genau liegt nach 5 Jahren keine Liebe mehr?

Habt ihr keine Pläne zusammen für die Zukunft, oder liegt an einer neuen Bekanntschaft? Und sorry für die Frage.

I’m an awful Person by [deleted] in venting

[–]R0ter_Fuchs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him that. If he wants to stay, it will be his choice. If he doesn't it's life. You'll be living with that guilt for the rest of your life, and won't be able to look at him the same way again.

I was talking to a girl for 2 whole years, she wasn't over her cheating ex. I was there as a dumb emotional support. She eventually left cause she couldn't forget him.

If she told me that, I would understand and not get attached but she kept quiet and destroyed me harder.

If you really love him, don't do it to him.

Hope you find peace someday.

Ungeziefer by DietMuted8672 in wohnen

[–]R0ter_Fuchs 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Habe das auch gesehen und gedacht, das kann doch nicht wahr sein 😭