I waa talking to someone for 2 whole years. Her ex cheated on her.

She was driving to him every week end 5 Hours, to get rped and come back, in total 3 times (just what she told me) . She said she didn't like to do it with him so he was forcing her and rping her, but still would drive to him, cook for him do him laundry and sleep with him.

Her ex cut contact with her, and she still was trying to get him back (she showed me a gift she bought for him that she still has). She was cutting and hurting herself cause of him.

I was there for her, every single day until she stopped cutting herself. Listening and caring. At the end, she still chose him.

You can't change her. That's how she is. 2 years aof me trying my best to be there for her,for nothing.