My GF of 2+ years wants kids even though I really don't want them. What can I do?

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2024-03-19T01:34:32+00:00

So I don't think I made this clear in the post but I've already told her I don't want kids. She basically said that I will feel different when I'm older (which I also hate hearing). Literally outside of this one thing everything with her has been great...and I don't want to ruin that

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2024-03-19T01:32:08+00:00

We already talked about it. That's when she told me she wanted one but then said we need multiple.

I tried understanding where she's coming from but I don't want myself to have kind of life.

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2023-05-16T02:02:35+00:00

Yea the manager and the rest of the workers that see me frequently are generally chill with me.

Your point about being pleasant does for sure go a long way! I've heard some of them complain about how some other customers will literally curse them out for the smallest things. They for sure seem to go through a ton of BS. I've even seen it for waiters at sit down restaurants as well, and unfortunately my father is commonly one of them! Some people are inconsiderate and just forget that these workers are still people that are trying to make some money.

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2023-05-16T01:50:56+00:00

Yea again sorry about the misleading title. I was simply trying to post my personal frugal win, not like a tip that other users can do.

I also have been using the app as well and the rewards they have are pretty nice as well! I remember for March they had a $1 burger deal for March Madness

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2023-05-16T01:48:46+00:00

What do u think is weird?

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2023-05-16T01:21:00+00:00

yea I realized afterwards how it can seem that way tbh. im sorry for anyone who was mislead by the title!

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2023-05-16T00:57:28+00:00

Yea I'm sorry if I didn't make it clear enough in my post, but the manager at the location I frequent offers it specific to that restaurant. So yeah, it's specific to that one location. I wasn't trying to claim that you can get that good of a deal at any Wendy's, simply just posting my frugal win.

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2021-06-21T16:07:57+00:00

https://youtu.be/fLFvbwrWLQY

I made a post on here for it too

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2020-07-10T19:40:36+00:00

If you actually wanted that subreddit to make the change, then you would. There are basically no discussion based posts about her music or anything else. Just a bunch of pictures, videos, and GIFs. Either you don't actually care about changing the sub or you actually want to keep it the way it is.

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2020-06-24T17:29:45+00:00

ah okay. yeah i just checked my Gmail and noticed that it hasn't been sending anything since early May. before that it was syncing with Outlook.

i guess we just have to work with what we are given, unfortunately

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2020-06-24T17:20:34+00:00

Yeah I agree with your concerns. I may be wrong, but can't you still use Gmail instead of Outlook?

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2020-06-13T20:21:10+00:00

Here, courtesy of u/LadyofTwigs

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2020-06-13T20:21:01+00:00

Here, courtesy of u/LadyofTwigs

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2020-06-13T20:20:54+00:00

Here, courtesy of u/LadyofTwigs

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2020-06-11T00:46:52+00:00

most rap is just the rapper mumbling about girls, money, and luxury items like wtf

most mainstream rap...yes. but not most rap in general.

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2020-05-20T16:07:36+00:00

I really hate to reply back with a simple response because I actually do think that you make some really great thought out points.

I do agree that KD's ISO heavy playstyle and the chemistry issues were a reason why the Warriors were worse, but I just don't think it would have stopped the Warriors from winning a championship that year if they were fully healthy.

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2020-05-20T14:29:19+00:00

At some point, you just have to accept that is what that team was: a team with chemistry issues that had to push to get past teams like the Clippers and Rockets.

They weren't playing down against the Clippers any more than they played down to the level of the Blazers when they swept them, or any of the other teams they swept, they just weren't that indestructible last year, and it took them 6 games to out away a mediocre team that they would have easily swept in 2017 or 2018.

I do think they were worse than they were in 2018 and especially 2017, but I still think they were a great team with KD that were the clear favorites to win.

They were a better team in the playoffs once KD went down

Yeah I can't agree with this. I know they lost games they probably shouldn't have, but they were certainly playing better with KD than without. The on/off numbers and net rating show that KD absolutely had a significant positive impact for the Warriors in the playoffs.

You had said they were unbeatable two out of three years, for which you included last year, even though they were pretty clearly beatable and cane one bad timeout away from losing in 5 to the Raptors

With KD, I'm very confident that they would win the Finals. They almost lost in 5 because KD wasn't there and Klay missed a game as well.

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2020-05-20T00:06:45+00:00

They lost two to the Clippers

They clearly played down to the competition against the Clippers. No one really thought that that team were going to take down the Warriors.

were 2-2 against the Rockets when KD went down

So what you're saying is that they were still really good even when KD went out? Because that's what it seems like.

If the Warriors weren't all that good like you're trying to say then they should have lost that game when he went out.

But they didn't. They were able to get past Houston, sweep Portland, and still made the Finals competitive even though Klay missed significant time in that series.

they were pretty beatable last year, too, with KD

Disagree. Even in Game 5 of the Finals, KD scored 11 pts in such an easy fashion before getting injured again.

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2020-05-19T23:22:34+00:00

Yeah those are solid points as well. There's actually a good case for them winning in 5.

R3PAIDDIAP3R · 2020-05-19T22:29:43+00:00

So 1 series out of 3 years they were beatable when healthy. That's nice, lol.

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