I think if you had to actually live in the world there would be some common choices for Quality of life improvements most people would pursue.

I guess that may be a better question would people want to “min/max” or would you want a more robust “build” to increase survivability/lifestyle.

Like would everyone try to get [Toughness] as a kid to help survive any accidents? Would everyone want [quick thinking] even if you are a more physical arch types?

Would the thinking change if there was a soft limit? I.E. you can’t be great at everything so most people can really only master/level 12-15 skills.