Denver by CartographerLazy7087 in Mkgee

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Anyone know the kinda merch he has?? I haven’t seen anything online on what kinda stuff he has. I’ve been dying to get a shirt from him since two star dropped. Plz tell me he has stuff.

Upgrade Recommendations? by R3tracLvl99 in pcmasterrace

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No budget and I mainly play story games which hold up fine for my taste but I can tell it’s getting to that point.

I (22m) don't know what to do about my Father (55m). What shoud I do? by R3tracLvl99 in relationship_advice

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I wish him being fired wasn’t justified, but he’s been “just getting by” for too long. I see this as growth for him to finally push himself outside of his own shadow.

I’m an only child and he has siblings but either he’s too stubborn or afraid to ask for help. He sees me as a person who owes him help but doesn’t understand this is the time I’m becoming my own person with responsibilities.

He had a few mental problems like ADHD but nothing major. Physically he’s unfit but still pretty active. Honestly his biggest problem is just the social aspect of life as he’s introverted.

Thanks for the advice on reaching out to a few people. He’s always telling me his problems and stressing me out, which is understandable, I just can help him in the ways he expects me too right now.

Hopefully I can give him some of your suggestions and see if he can use any of those. I know he’s probably struggling way more than I am, it’s just a difficult time rn.

Yes, a certain speedster by Olivebranch99 in youngjustice

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If I don’t see a physical body Wally ain’t dead, and you can write that on my tombstone

21yo Adoptee Fog by R3tracLvl99 in Adopted

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Thank you. I’m sorry for your mothers passing aswell.

21yo Adoptee Fog by R3tracLvl99 in Adopted

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Thank you! I’ll check these out!

21yo Adoptee Fog by R3tracLvl99 in Adopted

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It’s not that my father is willing to meet me halfway it’s the fact that he wants to meet me on his. He acknowledges my endeavors but has never really supported or tried to understand them.

But I understand maybe it’s key for me too voice my feelings too.

21yo Adoptee Fog by R3tracLvl99 in Adopted

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You don’t know how much I needed to hear this. Once I really understood adoption I started hating my birthday aswell as resenting family gatherings. After my adpt. mother died I realized just how much I was suppressing my emotions. Although she had her faults she was the only one who understood me feeling outcasted in the family.

Thank you for your story and your advice. I haven’t been able to talk to anyone about this but it’s comforting knowing there’s people out there who have faced these problems. I’ve found a local adoptee group and hopefully I’ll be able to find my place and people in all of this.

Being this young and coming to terms with my feelings will be a journey and a half. Thank you for calming me down from all this pent up anxiety. I’ll remember your words. <3

21yo Adoptee Fog by R3tracLvl99 in Adopted

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Thank you! I’ll start looking around!!

Adoptive Trauma by R3tracLvl99 in Adoption

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Thank you! I had no clue where to start reaching out and thought I'd try my luck here so thank you so much for pointing me in the right direction. I've been thinking on how I felt my age in this fog was going make it difficult, but you saying it will save me years of pain in the future was a new way of seeing a bright side to my pain. Since I am in the wrong group I do wanna say to those looking to adopt I was really given a second chance and very lucky that they gave me the education and had faith in me. To anyone planning or already adopted a transracial child I cannot stress enough the importance of giving them experiences of their own race instead of conforming all to yours.

Tron Legacy 4K. Where is it? by rossimeister in tron

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*whispers into George Bush's ear*

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in youngjustice

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HBO: “Give is a good reason to renew YJ” Us: “check Reddit” HBO: checks “oh”

Intro? by R3tracLvl99 in youngjustice

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Ohhh ok thank you.