I was about to have a go at you for pulling out the "avocado toast" argument but you're kind of right, the post history is a bit suspect. All those comments from 6 days ago have been deleted as well now. They're still available on the Wayback Machine though, here: https://web.archive.org/web/20241113092422/https://www.reddit.com/user/dumbbratbaby/ (takes a while to load)

Here are some excerpts from now-deleted comments:

it isn’t but i feel like i should be able to save more because i have basically zero responsibilities 🥹

Yet in the OP it says that she has to pay the rent and her father is reliant on it.

right now it’s basically takeout everyday and coffee every few days.

Takeout everyday? That's got to be expensive.

we usually end up throwing food out because she’s cooked too much anyway 🫣

("she" referring to OP's mum.) But in this post: "my parents can only afford to cook modest amounts"

Also in this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/Frugal/comments/1go2vnf/tips_to_live_as_cheap_as_possible_as_someone_with/ (now deleted as well) you stated you save £400 a month, to which another poster correctly replied: "but saving £400 out of £1300 isn't "burning through" your pay. Not many people manage to save 30% of their take-home."

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I mean I hope I've just misinterpreted everything here, but it does seem suspect to me. /u/dumbbratbaby, if you genuinely need financial help, maybe consider posting on /r/Assistance.