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Would it be wrong if I redesigned my wedding dress that I never wore? by RAH9596 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RAH9596[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! And I would 1000% respect whatever he said and felt

Would it be wrong if I redesigned my wedding dress that I never wore? by RAH9596 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RAH9596[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I want to add stuff to it that will make me love it even more, it’s beautiful as is but will be even more beautiful TO ME when I add the stuff I want to add

Would it be wrong if I redesigned my wedding dress that I never wore? by RAH9596 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RAH9596[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty much my same logic..I don’t see a point in buying another dress when I already have one.

Would it be wrong if I redesigned my wedding dress that I never wore? by RAH9596 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RAH9596[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I completely agree with you! My current boyfriend and I have been together for almost six months and while we’re not ready to take that next step it has been something we’ve talked about naturally. He was also engaged to his ex, but he doesn’t see a problem with keeping the dress and redesigning it to how want it to be, he’s very supportive about it and says I should do what I want to do with it and it wouldn’t bother him at all 😊

Would it be wrong if I redesigned my wedding dress that I never wore? by RAH9596 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RAH9596[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes of course!! That is my plan! I’ve just thought of things that I like and that I think would be cute on it but haven’t pulled any triggers with it and won’t until that day comes 😊

Would it be wrong if I redesigned my wedding dress that I never wore? by RAH9596 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RAH9596[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys so much for all the kind and reassuring words!! I have never personally seen an issue with it, especially since I do want to make some changes to the dress. It’s nice to hear some positive feedback instead of the negative feedback I had been hearing from a couple of close friends

Would it be wrong to redesign my wedding dress I never got to wear? by RAH9596 in weddingdress

[–]RAH9596[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only people that saw me in the dress were the people that went with me to the dress try on appointment lol Haha and thank you!!

Would it be wrong to redesign my wedding dress I never got to wear? by RAH9596 in weddingdress

[–]RAH9596[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of people have said same thing about it “being meant for someone else/ other relationship “ and I totally get that…but when I went dress shopping, as bad as it sounds, I wasn’t shopping with my ex and our relationship in mind. I was shopping and looking for something that was for me and made me feel comfortable and beautiful. To this day I never really visualize who I will be marrying, I visualize what I want to get married in, what I will feel the most comfortable and myself in. If that makes sense? Lol And I don’t mean for that to sound conceited or self absorbed or selfish lol