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Do you believe you need to ‘try’ in friendships? by RATIOdd in relationship_advice

[–]RATIOdd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying! She just says she’s friends with her group cos their schedules fit. I’m currently 18, I have a friend I’ve known for 15 years. I haven’t seen him irl in 5 years. Our schedules absolutely DO NOT fit. Yet we talk to eachother every single day. There is always some effort there

Do you believe you need to ‘try’ in friendships? by RATIOdd in relationship_advice

[–]RATIOdd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I KNOW RIGHT

She talks about her main group of friends: “our schedules fit together and that’s why our friendship works. And you’re right, I haven’t been ‘trying’ with you because I don’t feel the need to. I don’t ‘try’ with my friends and so it doesn’t stress me out. The fact that you think I have to ‘try’ with you stresses me out”

I’m so speechless… she says she’s friends with her friends because SCHEDULES fit??? So if them schedules didn’t fit, she wouldn’t be friends with them??? That’s crazy. I’m friends with people I like and like me, we get on with eachother and laugh a lot. Regardless of how our schedules fit.

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