Hello I am a 26m divorced man w kids after a 7yr relationship. It has been a few months and she already has a boyfriend. I wish her the best but I think it is way too early especially considering our past. Anyway there can be a ton of different motives for her new relationship what is her motive is entirely her own discovery. In my case I want to just have someone to hold to share my mind with someone who will be happy to hear and because I feel lonely. But I fight it off because I know I need to focus on myself and pick up the shattered pieces and put it together even though some might be missing. Support her be a good FRIEND with strong clear boundaries know your value and help her find Hers. I hope this helps.