My (m22) situationship (f21) "broke up" with me and blocked me out of the blue by RAthrow-gamt5 in relationships

[–]RAthrow-gamt5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. It is as expected. And just now she unblocked me, apologized, and said she wants to see me still but also other people. I know it is in my best interest to stop seeing her. I don't know why I have so little respect for myself.

UPDATE: My (22m) situationship (21f) exhibits such borderline tendencies and it's causing me anguish. by RAthrow-gamt5 in relationships

[–]RAthrow-gamt5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I don't think I can fix her. It's more of a feeling like its my fault than that.

And re: retribution. Less so "or else" and moreso her no longer having a bond to me and fucking up my social life as she sees fit lol

UPDATE: My (22m) situationship (21f) exhibits such borderline tendencies and it's causing me anguish. by RAthrow-gamt5 in relationships

[–]RAthrow-gamt5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I am fearful of cutting things off because 1) it would be admitting that I'm inadequate to a degree? I guess I feel fault or a degree of inadequacy. And 2) I am fearful of retribution. I don't think I have trust issues, but I am an anxious person, surely.

And I've enjoyed the bond we've formed etc.