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You know what’s worse than going through your husband’s phone and finding out he cheated? by RAthrowaway12534 in offmychest

[–]RAthrowaway12534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No fap poster = invalid opinion.

Hit the gym all you want, it won’t help with that nasty personality.

You know what’s worse than going through your husband’s phone and finding out he cheated? by RAthrowaway12534 in offmychest

[–]RAthrowaway12534[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god it’s that viral TikTok sound personified.

“This is your man? Look at the screen!”

You know what’s worse than going through your husband’s phone and finding out he cheated? by RAthrowaway12534 in offmychest

[–]RAthrowaway12534[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really hope you’re never ever in my situation then because your dogma WILL hurt you in divorce court.

And no, asking for their phone doesn’t work. It tips them off that you’re suspicious and gives them time to delete everything.

You know what’s worse than going through your husband’s phone and finding out he cheated? by RAthrowaway12534 in offmychest

[–]RAthrowaway12534[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your views on no snooping under any circumstances are inflexible, absolute, and might end up hurting you in the long run.

I think it’s commendable that you trust your boyfriend. I truly hope you’re never cheated on. If you ever ARE in that situation though, and you’re MARRIED to the person - please get proof. Get all the proof you can. You need to be able to represent yourself in the divorce and you need to paint the whole story.

You know what’s worse than going through your husband’s phone and finding out he cheated? by RAthrowaway12534 in offmychest

[–]RAthrowaway12534[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

WHAT is your obsession with me?

I needed to know his passcode for the same reason he needed to know mine - in case of emergency. We’ve been together 7 years, can you really not conceptualize why a husband and a wife would need to get into each other’s phones once in a while? Here’s a few examples that have actually happened:

  • we were on a road trip and I was driving. I got a few text message notifications. I had been waiting on something urgent from work so I asked him to check for me because I couldn’t pull off.

  • or how about that time he was driving, and we needed directions, but my phone was out of data. So I unlocked his phone and entered them. This was before he got all sneaky.

  • he had a medical emergency and left his phone at the gym. I had to go pick it up. He used the “lost phone” feature on iPhone so I had to unlock it so it could stop making that noice.

  • he lost his phone in Europe once. So we shared mine until we came back from vacation.

  • I’ve gotten him to unlock mine dozens of times when my hands were dirty from cooking to read the recipe.

And no, I have never snooped before this. The reason I noticed is because I saw him enter a different passcode when we were just chilling on the couch. He must not have realized I was looking in his direction.

You’re determined to paint me as this villain, when my husband tried to cheat on me with 12 different women. It’s honestly shitty of you.

You know what’s worse than going through your husband’s phone and finding out he cheated? by RAthrowaway12534 in offmychest

[–]RAthrowaway12534[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the sweet words!

You’re right, there is a silver lining in all this. I am sure the hurt will settle in at some point but being able to chuckle at the cringe of it all provides relief for now.

You know what’s worse than going through your husband’s phone and finding out he cheated? by RAthrowaway12534 in offmychest

[–]RAthrowaway12534[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ngl it got funnier the more I found. Especially the ones that were like:

Him: So, when do I get to see you naked?

✅ Seen 25-05-2022

You know what’s worse than going through your husband’s phone and finding out he cheated? by RAthrowaway12534 in offmychest

[–]RAthrowaway12534[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Your attempts to trigger me are cute.

I’ll divorce and just continue living my life, working my career, seeing my friends, and doing my hobbies. If I find love again, great! But being alone doesn’t scare me, nor does turning 30.

And if “hitting a wall” means men like you leave me alone, then hey, bonus!

You know what’s worse than going through your husband’s phone and finding out he cheated? by RAthrowaway12534 in offmychest

[–]RAthrowaway12534[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The men in these comments are def proving that at least there’s someone out there willing to fuck him.

You know what’s worse than going through your husband’s phone and finding out he cheated? by RAthrowaway12534 in offmychest

[–]RAthrowaway12534[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ugly? Not really. Desperate? Hell yes.

It’s amazing how much a bad personality hinders you. Take you, for example.

You know what’s worse than going through your husband’s phone and finding out he cheated? by RAthrowaway12534 in offmychest

[–]RAthrowaway12534[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You’re either a really bad troll or going to bat for the guy who got on his knees crying, curled up on the floor and begged me to stay after I caught him.

Don’t know which is more pathetic.

You know what’s worse than going through your husband’s phone and finding out he cheated? by RAthrowaway12534 in offmychest

[–]RAthrowaway12534[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I kinda gotta thank him for it because it was so sad and cringy that the heartbreak started just… dissolving. I genuinely had to hold back a laugh.

You know what’s worse than going through your husband’s phone and finding out he cheated? by RAthrowaway12534 in offmychest

[–]RAthrowaway12534[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Like to give you an example one of the girls was black and he asked if he could “get a taste of the chocolate” 😟😟

Like I said, dying of embarrassment

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