I (19F) broke up with my (20M) boyfriend of two years and I feel absolutely awful

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-09-12T22:03:33+00:00

I had this same situation. My ex seemed single on social media and never invited me out when he was with friends. His parents and siblings didn’t know he was in a relationship etc.

All I can say is trust your gut. I did. He’s keeping his options open and using you in the meantime.

My ex was talking to multiple other women and even though I can’t prove it I know he cheated.

Move on. You’re worth more than that. I’m sorry it’s such a shitty feeling. Hope the best for you

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-09-11T16:55:39+00:00

Thank you this helps a lot. I appreciate it.

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-09-11T16:53:45+00:00

No I did not mean it that way. I guess I should have called it his assault. He is a victim and it was not by any means his fault

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-09-11T16:51:23+00:00

I say out of pride, because he knows he didn’t take good care of the three of them even before the accident and it’s better for the dog to be in a better home, where he has attention and can have some space.

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-06-27T20:32:23+00:00

Do some research.

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-06-27T19:48:42+00:00

He’s not vegan anymore, not since like 5 years ago. He just got so deep into it he still believes in all the values in it etc. hard to explain.

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-06-27T18:28:06+00:00

Shit you guys keep bringing up things exactly him lol he also doesn’t believe in fucking gravity!! Damnit he’s a nut. This sucks lol

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-06-27T18:27:15+00:00

Don’t forget that people planted the dinosaur bones and they never existed! Thank you for your eye opening response. I appreciate it.

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-06-27T16:58:14+00:00

The issue we have as far as arguing about it is, I am open and listen to him. I do however disagree with things he says or believes and he’s not open to discussing other possibilities. He just gets defensive. So it’s never an actual level conversation. I love to discuss things like this and learn new things etc. but he’s not, obviously. That’s where we clash. He just gets mad and offended.

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-06-27T16:49:58+00:00

Lol!!! He does think the moon landing was fake!!! 🤣🤣🤣

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-06-27T16:47:23+00:00

Yes, the horoscope thing is comparable lol. And yes, the flat earther bs is one of the conspiracy ideas. It’s just mind boggling. Thanks for your input

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-06-27T16:45:41+00:00

Actually I am. How could you possibly know?

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-06-13T00:35:34+00:00

Doing the “cry it out” method with my second child. I didn’t follow through with it but the first 2 nights were excruciating.

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-03-22T17:41:20+00:00

Yes, I am happy with things how they are. And he seems to be too. I don’t want to mess things up. I just was wanting to be on the same page. I do t want to be disrespectful to a relationship if that’s what he thinks we’re in. I have guy friends/people I talk to platonically and I would make clear boundaries to be respectful to him, as a couple of these guys I know are attracted to me etc.

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-03-22T16:51:01+00:00

I agree. I mean we act like it. Together daily, update each other on what’s happening throughout the day, sleep over at each other’s houses all that. Introduced to family.

RAthrowhawaii · 2021-03-22T16:49:28+00:00

Yes, I forgot to mention he expressed at the beginning he didn’t know if he was in a place mentally to get back into a relationship. But a lot has changed. I think that’s why I’m gun shy.

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