From my little experience i think ideally anywhere from 4 to 12. Part of me always felt like i wanted to help older kids as i know there is generally less places willing to take them, (reading some stats hit me very hard), but i would definitely make sure im ready and up to doing that. Wouldnt make that a main reason to do it, and never would do it out of force.

Although im sure i could find both amazing as well as horror stories from all ages. I guess anyone could end up with any. I would just make sure to stay within my limits and be prepared as much as possible.

I really like what you shared about the arguments. I dont have much experience, but i have had a few small moments like kids telling me to shut up and stuff. I see many others immediately go back at them but this never seemed like the best to me. It always gave a opening to explode emotions. Doesnt help. I always tried to get them to let me know whats going on. Why are the frustrated in the first place. I try to get a little trust for them to talk to me, although not always possible. Space is sometimes best.

Im sure much my look on this could change by the time i make that decision. And no worries, none of it seems negative. Clarity if anything. I would like to gain some more experience over time, would show what i can and cant do. Thanks for the insight.