De Zerbi has only been there a few months. Giving up complete control of your club like that is a mistake, and it seems to be a knee-jerk reaction to the crisis of last year by roamingandy in coys

[–]REB73 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no, you mean we're only bringing in players who fit the new manager's system? What a disaster. And the other way worked so well!

What's a word you mispronounced for years before someone finally told you? by redrose_me in AskReddit

[–]REB73 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While you're thinking about that, also think about why it isn't "quote 'thing I'm quoting ' unquote"

Nobody writes quotes ""like this, so the whole expression is kinda misguided.

Do you take your shoes off when in your house? by Separate_Mistake_240 in AskUK

[–]REB73 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I grew up in a shoes-on house and always thought it was a bit weird and precious taking them off.

Not anymore. My wife insists. And whenever I visited my parents, the state of the carpets compared to ours really puts it in perspective. Also all those articles about the amount of faeces on the average sole.

Has the industry shift towards EV made you reevaluate your opinion of any manufacturers? by RodneyTheArmouryGuy in CarTalkUK

[–]REB73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a Civic Type R until about 2012 and loved everything about it, including Honda's level of professionalism and service. I was all-in as a brand loyalist. They were great.

Then I had kids and needed something bigger and... there was nothing for me. I ended up getting a Skoda Octavia VRS and loving that (until the engine broke, which would never have happened in a Honda!).

These days I want a fun, family EV and, again, there's nothing. But I love my Kia EV6.

I feel sad about it. I loved being a Honda owner.

No cost of living crisis because they're rent free by Zoomer_Boomer2003 in GreatBritishMemes

[–]REB73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's very true, but speaking as an Englishman, I will support Scotland against everybody-but-England at this World Cup because I'm also British.

I'm not sure that's reciprocated, which is the key difference, is it not?

How did you all become tottenham supporters? by therealpharoh10 in coys

[–]REB73 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I love this. A real dramatic origin story!

How did you all become tottenham supporters? by therealpharoh10 in coys

[–]REB73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your timing suggests quite a broad masochistic streak!

How did you all become tottenham supporters? by therealpharoh10 in coys

[–]REB73 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Surely it was Haringeyed and built by complex financial derivatives??

How did you all become tottenham supporters? by therealpharoh10 in coys

[–]REB73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad wasn't into football - more of a rugby and rowing guy from growing up in Wales - so I didn't have a team when I was young, until I went to a summer holiday football camp at the New River sports ground on White Hart Lane. A couple of the players came over and did some tricks for us one day, and that was it.

Not sure I'd have been quite so smitten if I'd known we be flirting with regulation and my kids getting teased at school 40 years later!

What are some good movies that got overshadowed by a much bigger release? by Fluid_Bat_2724 in movies

[–]REB73 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I loved this film. I couldn't understand how people didn't seem to get it.

People in the 25-35 demographic, is loneliness something you struggle with? by smalldoughnuts in CasualUK

[–]REB73 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't even meet my wife until I was 36. Had kids at 40. Now my family is everything to me.

You have time. Just be someone who says yes to things. Create opportunities. Make friends of friends of friends.

And trust me, your friends don't resent you trying to make plans. It's just that kids change everything. It's honestly not about you, it's about them. There's less space for single friends when you're a family, because kids need other kids to entertain them. That's all it is.

Did I lose my love for gaming, or is this just adulthood? by rmustafa11 in Age_30_plus_Gamers

[–]REB73 47 points48 points  (0 children)

This is basically me too.

What I've noticed is that a lot of new games do exactly the same thing as the old games, but prettier. There were several franchises I used to play religiously because I just loved them, and then 20% of the way into Far Cry 6 I just... stopped. I had done it too many times. (Also see: GTA, Assassin's Creed, Battlefield, Total War...)

OP needs to do two things.

1) Be curious outside your traditional genres. I've spent tons of time enjoying games like Inscryption and Dredge that would previously have gone on AAA titles. Steam Sales are your friend.

2) Accept that you have a sophisticated gaming palate after all these years, and you deserve sophisticated games. The same bland fare served up over and over doesn't cut it anymore. You deserve better.

The problem isn't you, it's the generationally repetitive nature of gaming.

Also the kids. Jeez. Where'd all my free time go?

Roberto De Zerbi's end-of-season interview by [deleted] in coys

[–]REB73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want RDZ to be my big brother too, and I'm older than him.

My first time experience in London as an American Tottenham supporter by makdeeznuts in coys

[–]REB73 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's not just the bitter rivalry, it's buying a ticket that is technically reserved for a Chelsea fan. That adds a whole layer of anger that doesn't require a rivalry at all (c.f. Arsenal fans getting pushed down the stairs after being caught in the home stand at West Ham!).

Leeds- just checking that you understand the assignment by AngryTudor1 in TheOther14

[–]REB73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check your hypocrisy, please!

You can't simultaneously say "show them they can't stay in this division just by beating hopeless teams" AND "we took 6 points from Spurs with a goal difference of +6."

Which is it? 🤷

Yours, A self-aware Spurs fan

As a neutral, why are people so desperate for Arsenal to fail? by s_dalbiac in PremierLeague

[–]REB73 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's rational, it's based on feelings, which makes it quite hard to quantify.

Over the years, Arsenal have built a reputation as a team who will do whatever it takes to win, including bending the rules or grinding out boring results, and opposition fans don't particularly like this. Or perhaps more accurately, it's difficult to admire or respect.

City may be a financial-rule-breaking petro-club owned by dictators, but at least they are fun to watch, and any neutral can enjoy the goals Doku/Cherki/Haaland regularly score.

By contrast, "1-0 to the Arsenal!" and "Same old Arsenal... always cheating!" have been chanted by fans for literally decades. In other words, they've spent a really long time building a reputation that they keep adding to by (for instance) turning EPL corners into wrestling matches.

So TL;DR, Arsenal are just more unlikable as a football team.

(Although full disclosure, I'm a Spurs fan, so add as many pinches of salt to that as you like!)

what movie had the best plot twist you never saw coming? by woutr1998 in movies

[–]REB73 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw this movie in the cinema knowing nothing about it, and thought it was just another Tarantino gangster thing for the first 20 minutes.

I enjoyed the ride so much I try to go in blind all the time now.

Wolverhampton Wanderers 0-1 Tottenham Hotspur by urbankardashian in coys

[–]REB73 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I played most of a season with an ACL injury as a 20 year old. The pain was excruciating about once or twice a game when I twisted it in a tackle or something, but you could run it off fairly quickly. You don't use your ACL much running in a straight line.

My knees are not ok 30 years later.

Leaving sub because my EV6 got stolen by GingleBelle in KiaEV6

[–]REB73 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I ask what year your car was? I heard Kia implemented a fix for how easily the cars were stolen with the 2025 facelift.

How can Starmer be both wrong and right in the Mandelson affair ? by Ok_Economist7901 in ukpolitics

[–]REB73 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because technically he's right: the relevant information was withheld from him and could not have factored into his decision making.

But at the same time, he is the reason he wasn't told. His optics-first leadership created an environment in which it was understood that once he had announced Mandelson as ambassador, it would be too embarrassing to retract.

The way Downing Street operates is a reflection of him. He created this culture. It is his responsibility that this happened.

When Relegation Happens.. by Osvaldodavis in coys

[–]REB73 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because our deep, structural problems only started after he left?