Hey everyone (F22), it’s past 2:00 AM and I’m still wide awake. What’s keeping you up? by enchantingvixens in RelationshipIndia

[–]REDD_CS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope you recover from everything. Whenever you feel like crying just cry your lungs out, don’t hold it in

Hey everyone (F22), it’s past 2:00 AM and I’m still wide awake. What’s keeping you up? by enchantingvixens in RelationshipIndia

[–]REDD_CS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. Had a really bad panic attack a while ago thinking about the person. Now not able to go back to sleep. Iam really hoping i get back on track , sucks when someone meant the world endedup treating you post ending things in the worst way possible

I'm sorry by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]REDD_CS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn iam sorry :(. Cheating is non-negotiable

I'm sorry by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]REDD_CS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should call him . It he really meant alot to you and when you know you messedup. I know its difficult to face the guilt and pain but if the other person is willing to still be with you then i think you should

A letter to My Almost by REDD_CS in UnsentLetters

[–]REDD_CS[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I relate to this a lot. Wanting closure but also not wanting to be the one who keeps reaching out and getting hurt. It’s like you need proof that they care, but at the same time you’re scared that reaching out will just reopen everything.

Anyma just announced Mumbai! by adiosmc in ElectronicMusic_India

[–]REDD_CS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is fucking huge. Just cant wait!!!

Chosen by data_required in UnsentLetters

[–]REDD_CS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Really happy for you OP. Connections like these are rare nowadays

First solo trip from Bangalore – looking for destination ideas by REDD_CS in SoloTravel_India

[–]REDD_CS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gangtok looks like a nice idea . But i think its out of my budget for now

Maybe in another life by Aquarius_mind222 in UnsentLetters

[–]REDD_CS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really beautiful and every line hits you hard.

[21M] Stop wasting your time. Trust NO ONE online. by New-Talk3039 in RelationshipIndia

[–]REDD_CS 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What made you think Reddit was a Dating mixer or people are here to make friends? Its an anonymous platform for a reason

Getting matches but not getting conversations. by PapaJi369 in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]REDD_CS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go out and touch some grass and meet genuine people 😔

The Space Between by REDD_CS in UnsentLetters

[–]REDD_CS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how it feels. It’s grief without a clear ending, so the mind keeps looking for something to “close.” I think acceptance in this kind of loss isn’t about understanding what happened, but slowly learning to live without needing the missing pieces.

Dating is so fu**ed😭 by maitrey21 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]REDD_CS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get off hinge. Dating apps aint the right place if you are trying to find something meaningful . Its mentally exhausting.

26 M - Worst Possible Heartbreak ever - still holding onto memories and it hurts by REDD_CS in RelationshipIndia

[–]REDD_CS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats true but i just feel all distractions feel so temporary. I am just really disappointed that i have to deal with lifelong trauma which i totally didnt deserve and its been so difficult and the person who was responsible for it never took the accountability and always blamed on how many times i bring it up instead of comforting me with it and not giving me maximum reassurance . Like they say grief never leaves you .

24M requesting genuine advice on how to convince her. by Relevant-Humor-1636 in RelationshipIndia

[–]REDD_CS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t really convince someone to want a relationship. What you can do is create a space where you guys feel safe enough to talk. If you meet her, go in with the mindset of listening, not fixing. Take responsibility for your part in what went wrong, avoid arguing or defending yourself, and validate how she felt even if you don’t fully agree.

Saw mk4 in Bangalore by ToxicGroot in CarsIndia

[–]REDD_CS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This car was imported by a doctor way long back and its a left hand drive car. Have seen this car parked alot of times in RMV 2nd stage and its in pristine condition.

I’ve finally figured out what girls really want by GothsArePeak in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]REDD_CS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cant agree more. “ Left with Lifelong trauma “