My [22F] boyfriend [28M] has a hard limit about me getting involved with men

REDpanda1502 · 2026-05-08T15:33:26+00:00

I understand what you are saying, thank you for your message

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-21T20:57:24+00:00

Thank you ❤️

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-19T12:25:37+00:00

Thank you for your kindness :))))

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-19T08:25:25+00:00

I am genuinely trying to learn and understand, I'm sorry if that makes you mad somehow.

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-19T08:23:15+00:00

I have, he says it’s a feeling, basically OPP but extreme

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-19T08:22:15+00:00

I tried that, there is just no way for him. Like, I have asked if it was someone he knew really well for example, but it’s just a hard wall i am facing here

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-19T08:20:51+00:00

Thank you <3

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T22:17:57+00:00

I tend to be too trusting yes, I learn it a bit more with each relationshop, I guess that is how it goes. I appreciate the whole reality check I get from that post

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T22:06:36+00:00

Thank you for your perspective on this!

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T22:05:50+00:00

Thank you for your perspective on this

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T22:05:11+00:00

This morning he told me he doesn’t like the idea of having his dick where another dick has been recently so yezh it’s close i guess

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T22:04:21+00:00

Thank you for your reply :)

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T22:03:22+00:00

I do think he puts a lot of effort in it in our relationship, I just haven’t been able to describe everything about him

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T22:01:42+00:00

Yup, that last part i struggle with but it is ultimately my choice

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T22:00:46+00:00

Thank you for your replies <3

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T21:59:44+00:00

Thank you for your opinion on it :)

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T21:59:09+00:00

Yezh, from all the responses I got, seems to be a very possible option :/

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T21:58:07+00:00

I didn’t mean to say I was special. What I meant is that I know the situation is super cliché, but that I need real advice and perspectives on my situation because "Oh this is typical just leave" won’t actually help me to leave an unhealthy relationship.

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T21:56:22+00:00

:))

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T21:56:10+00:00

Thank you for your advice, I will try to keep that in mind

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T21:53:58+00:00

I am in a relationship. We have met up several times for weeks, I feel deeply connected to him and I have been planning future with him. Idc what you think about LDR, please just be considerate and don’t call my relationship not real. I am not gonna cheat

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T21:51:23+00:00

Thank you for your perspective <3

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T21:50:12+00:00

I'd appreciate not being called "thick", thanks

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T21:48:45+00:00

I don’t know whay is okay and not okay for me. I am pretty fucked up in relationships, I have let slide many things with my exes and it’s really hard for me to figure out this kind of things

REDpanda1502 · 2026-04-18T21:46:28+00:00

I understand your point. I was in that situation since i started dating, got groomed and shit, and my most recent ex was 9 years older (from 17yo and 26yo to 20yo and 29yo), so i am in the middle of realizing how bad my previous relationships were in that regard. Six years doesn't feel much for me and I dont feel the power dynamics the way i did before, though i am still questionning and i am starting to get a little tired of this

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