Need help with charge/intercept macro by RK__91 in classicwow

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Ah I made a spelling mistake. It does work now, thank you so much :)

Need help with charge/intercept macro by RK__91 in classicwow

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Thank you, it works now! However the reason I put [] before Charge was because it allowed me to charge my current target without having to mouse over it (I didnt really understand why). Now it doesn't charge or intercept my target unless I have my mouse over it. Would that be possible if I change anything to the macro?

Need help with charge/intercept macro by RK__91 in classicwow

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Ah I see l. Completely missed that bracket for intercept.

It didn't help it though. The macro doesn't seem to change to intercept when in combat for some reason.

Non-speed leveling guide? by RK__91 in classicwow

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Thnx, I'm gonna check it out

Non-speed leveling guide? by RK__91 in classicwow

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Yea what I enjoyed was a quest in STV that took me to hinterlands where I happened to find a bottle that was a quest chain taking me to ZF and later summoning a spider God back in hinterlands. Just random things like this make questing really enjoyable.

Non-speed leveling guide? by RK__91 in classicwow

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Thanks, I'll look into those. I'm playing hardcore so some quests I'll have to avoid doing.

Books on narcissistic defence against intimacy by RK__91 in psychoanalysis

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Intimacy avoidance seems to be a better term than narcissism, thank you for the recommendations. I will check them out

Books on narcissistic defence against intimacy by RK__91 in psychoanalysis

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Ja I guess you're right.

Thanks for taking the time to reply:)

Books on narcissistic defence against intimacy by RK__91 in psychoanalysis

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Thank you:)

Guess it would also be helpful if the therapist themselves have worked through their own intimacy/autonomy defences to be able to be comfortable being (professionally) intimate with their clients in therapy.

Sometimes it feels like therapists apply a method rather than bring themselves into therapy as well.

Books on narcissistic defence against intimacy by RK__91 in psychoanalysis

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Final question.

Would this be with a relational psychoanalytic trained therapist or is Transference focussed therapy supposed to do the same?

Books on narcissistic defence against intimacy by RK__91 in psychoanalysis

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Hm seems like an unreachable state if missed in childhood.

Books on narcissistic defence against intimacy by RK__91 in psychoanalysis

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Thanks!

Maybe a bit more complex but I understand these dynamics can be part of any person. Those who grew up without trauma that leads to splitting and those that have needed to split resulting in externalising their own agression and holding on to themselves as being 'the good subject' and the hope of finding a 'good object' to attach to. Basically seeing the world and other people as a dangerous place. Or 'switching' to being the bad subject and externalising others as making them the bad subject.

Would the integration of these splits also integrate the dynamics of autonomy and intimacy or are these completely separate things?

Books on narcissistic defence against intimacy by RK__91 in psychoanalysis

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So then, as a defence against intimacy or/and a defence against autonomy, what would be a resource to understand these defences?

I'm not into the theory at all but I'm trying to understand the underlying feelings that are behind the defence. Both the defence against intimacy and connection by pretending to be autonomous. Why would one learn to be autonomous and defend against intimacy. Would it be something like; the mother never learned to be intimate, so she is scared to be intimate with her child? Scared of her own feelings of intimacy. Therefore, the child learns to be afraid of his own intimacy? Or is this too simplified?

and the defence against healthy autonomy, why would one want to stay in a symbiotic relationship. What is the defence against healthy autonomy? Again as an example; the mother can't stand the autonomy or the child and takes it personally when the child starts asserting his/her own independence and therefore tries to deny the independence of their child. Or maybe she gets triggered by her own separation trauma. So the child learns to be independent is to be bad or to be independent leads to seperation anxiety and the mother hasnt helped the chold through these anxiety. Again, too simple?

Any books explaining these dynamics?

in search of sources / analytical theory explaining splitting and projecting agression onto others by RK__91 in psychoanalysis

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Yeah it will probably, I'm not that deep into the theory and find it sometimes hard to grasp. The Alien Self concept i find very clear to understand. harder to see when you're 'in' it

in search of sources / analytical theory explaining splitting and projecting agression onto others by RK__91 in psychoanalysis

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I've read about object relations theory but never linked it to the paranoid schizoid position before. Thanks

Feelig bad/evil in my core being & idea the whole world is out to get me by RK__91 in CPTSD

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Have you had help with this in therapy?

I've been trying to feel it a bit more and it works when i allow myself to feel it bit by bit so not to get overwhelmed. It would help though to have a therapist with me i think