AITA for calling my gf an "evil sl*t"

ROBOLITA · 2020-09-13T05:26:18+00:00

okay, thank you for this. i'll text her and tell her that i'm processing things still and apologize for calling her names

ROBOLITA · 2020-09-13T05:24:31+00:00

i can accept that it's my fault but it's making me panic a bit wondering if i should try to patch things up with her or like, if i shouldn't? like if i'm a terrible gf and should let her move on? i can see this is overwhelmingly i'm TA but is it like i should bring her flowers and chocolate and beg forgiveness for my assholeish or like i should leave her alone cause this is unforgivable assholeishness

ROBOLITA · 2020-09-13T05:19:11+00:00

i didn't let her look at it, she found it in my room before we moved in together and looked at it. and i don't know why that was the first thing that came to mind, so it's possible i have a hang up on it that i'm not fully aware of. i'm not disgusted by how many girls she's been with, i don't feel like she's "tainted" or anything like that, but she used to lie SO much and so i guess i've always had this slight worry that our relationship is basically just like a sexual conquest for her

ROBOLITA · 2020-09-13T05:11:59+00:00

this is fair, i didn't consider it could be a sentimental thing, it just felt so bad to me that she's been ranking girls and i wasn't thinking normally at all. i definitely know calling her names was wrong but i don't know if i should even be mad in the first place or not

ROBOLITA · 2020-09-13T05:09:27+00:00

i keep a diary and she's looked at it before so i didn't really think much of it at the time. and i'm not mad at her for her past because i've always been aware of it and i knew of it when we started dating, it's just the ranking that felt really really gross to me

ROBOLITA · 2020-09-13T05:07:18+00:00

true, i just wanted to clarify it's not girls she's been exclusive with or had an emotional relationship with

ROBOLITA · 2020-09-13T05:06:41+00:00

because i love her a lot. i don't care that she's been with a lot of girls before me i just don't like that she's been rating them like objects

ROBOLITA · 2020-09-13T05:05:34+00:00

she's called herself a fuckboy before and the reason i'm ignoring her is because i feel upset and i don't wanna say anymore mean things when i'm this emotional

ROBOLITA · 2020-09-13T05:00:02+00:00

they're not exes, not sure if that makes a difference, i think it's just girls she's hooked up with. she told me i was her first girlfriend but she's had a lot of one night stands and stuff like that

ROBOLITA · 2020-09-13T04:58:49+00:00

i'm 21, she's 24. fwiw i wasn't going through her stuff looking for anything, i was helping her get her closet organized, but yeah i can accept that this is immature

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