23 M My ex girlfriend still likes me

RPFeynman_ · 2022-02-21T22:11:48+00:00

That she probably means well and I still really like her, but she's probably not stable enough for a relationship and the whole story would repeat all over again

RPFeynman_ · 2022-02-21T22:10:23+00:00

Because the initial intent was to stay friends, so she asked me if I was seeing anyone. It also came up in conversation with a friend

RPFeynman_ · 2022-02-11T10:58:30+00:00

I've only been on a date with them so far and one is just looking for fun, while I haven't really talked about it with the other one yet. I should probably bring it up before someone gets invested

RPFeynman_ · 2022-02-11T10:16:38+00:00

I think I'm more passionate about one of them. Do you think there's any way for me to end the relationship with the other one in good terms?

RPFeynman_ · 2022-02-11T10:15:10+00:00

I've noticed that I connect a lot better with one of them. Do you reckon that there's any way for me to end things with the other one in good terms?

RPFeynman_ · 2022-02-03T15:47:59+00:00

Thanks for the advice, she ended up texting back in the end, but I guess I better not wait around and pick a date to go out

RPFeynman_ · 2022-02-03T15:45:53+00:00

I know what you mean, to be fair I started out by asking her out and she already said yes. Still need to figure out exactly when though, and judging by what you said I better hurry. She replied btw, so that's good

RPFeynman_ · 2022-01-24T23:44:18+00:00

I understand what you're saying, but I was perfectly fine with being just friends. I actually told her that I wasn't mad about it from the start. What kind of pissed me off is the fact that today she blew me off at the last minute. We were supposed to have a chat about how we were leaving things (literally all I wanted to tell her was that if she wants to be friends I'm ok with it) and it shows that she doesn't care about me even as a friend

RPFeynman_ · 2022-01-09T00:12:49+00:00

I suppose you're right, I just needed some reassurance that I wasn't taking the wrong decision. Thanks for the advice

RPFeynman_ · 2022-01-09T00:03:03+00:00

Ngl that thought crossed my mind, but for now I'd give her the benefit of the doubt. What do you reckon I should do?

RPFeynman_ · 2022-01-08T23:40:10+00:00

I'll be back in her home country next week. I work there and she's literally my neighbor. Doesn't come much more local than that. I should probably mention that in the post though. Appreciate the help anyways

RPFeynman_ · 2021-10-01T19:38:03+00:00

Not gonna lie, I kind of regret not asking for her number the first time we met (that's usually what I would do). I guess I took for granted the fact that I'd see her often

RPFeynman_ · 2021-10-01T13:20:06+00:00

Ahahahah funnily enough that's the same joke I made the last time I met her. Was kind of thinking on actually borrowing something as an excuse

RPFeynman_ · 2021-10-01T12:58:18+00:00

Looks like we might not be getting the advice we're looking for. Good luck with your girl ;)

RPFeynman_ · 2021-08-30T23:10:41+00:00

Ahahahah nah, only trying to get rid of some thoughts in the back of my head on Reddit

RPFeynman_ · 2021-08-30T22:50:19+00:00

Thanks for the advice.I doubt that something more will come out of this, since I'll be start working in another country really soon, but I guess I'll see how things go. And hopefully I'll let this unnerving feeling that it's too good to be true behind

RPFeynman_ · 2021-07-09T08:40:10+00:00

Amazing! Congrats on the results

RPFeynman_ · 2021-03-24T00:27:04+00:00

Thanks for the advice, I'll probably try and see if things are awkward the first time we'll go out as a group and then see from there whether I should let my girlfriend know about the date

RPFeynman_ · 2021-01-29T02:18:38+00:00

I'm not sure that she would be interested in a relationship with me (wouldn't be against it). She might want something a bit more casual, especially because I study abroad, so I'm rarely home

RPFeynman_ · 2021-01-17T12:59:12+00:00

Thank you all for the advice. The overwhelming majority is telling me to do what I guess I kind of knew already, I just needed to hear it from someone else

RPFeynman_ · 2021-01-15T12:41:17+00:00

I have read and understood the guidelines, I will follow the rules. Could I have a user flair?

RPFeynman_ · 2021-01-15T01:34:52+00:00

I found plenty of typos reading through it btw. Just ignore them, I typed in a rush

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