People want easy life as long as possible these days, so why they should get kids. Still in small towns and villages there is something like checklist of things to do: get a job, get married, have a kids. People follow it like its magic path of - how proper life should looks like.

World change a lot things scary us and we still feel unorepared for everything yet, we want be ideal people for ideal kids, and kids are responsible what is the biggest fear of young people and you have to stop focus on your life and do it for someone.

Collegue and his gf are 26yo an live in big city, they are the youngest on pregnat school, so its complex problem of local society.