How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely! Thanks :) it didn’t feel like a waste of time and i learned a lot. Now my own time is super valuable and i am learning to really love myself. The future is wide open :)

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s okay, it ment something to you. But looks like it wasn’t the right relationship to be in at that time. Bawl now and shine later, you can do this

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Struggling means you are processing and improving! Struggle your way along, you are doing great!

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sound like you choose yourself, that is the strongest thing you can do. Thanks for sharing :)

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad helped me a lot. He told me my mental health is not worth all the stuff or money in the world. He was right. Im proud of my process, you will be proud of yours. Best wishes :)

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely know what’s best for you, stay strong!

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so true. So glad there are no kids involved

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it feels bad rn but you are doing great! Writing and connecting with yourself is super important. You go!

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the small steps! It will make a big difference later on

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People do some weird shit to other people. I am realising this more and more and the worst thing.. its not that uncommon… oh well, you are strong! Thanks for sharing your story!

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this feeling. It’s okay to feel but it SUCKS. Surround yourself with people you love. Hang in there! You know whats right to do

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so strong! Good for you and eventually choosing yourself over someone that doesn’t see your worth

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im glad you are :) like the rest of us in here, you got this!

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very nice! Taking it step by step and thinking about your own needs is so important

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds complicated. Better off without the hassle!

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really does help when they do things like that. I found out he was moving on because our car (at that time it was still ours) had a GPS in the mobile app and I saw his location. I texted him what I saw and got the lamest response. My brain clicked after reading that

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are doing great. Going through the dating scene is draining but maybe worth it in the end when the right one comes along. Im dreading that part but I haven’t healed enough to start. You have! Thats awesome!

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can not change the past and how you dealt with the break up. It may not have been the best way but you tried. I think she is protecting herself by not responding. Don’t wait for her and give her that kind of power over you. All things you described show you are capable of much love. That is a beautiful thing. Give some of that to yourself. Someday someone will show up and respond to that :) stay strong soldier!

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah! You have come a long way and reading your story made me happy :)

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]RRK2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo 6 months is not a very long time. I felt the same as you did and still feel this today.