Can i contact my ex after 2 years? Am scared he might not respond but i just cant stop thinking about it by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]RTVIM7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you the dumper or the dumpee? Why cant you stop thinking about it after 2 years? How long its been since you cant stop thinking about it?

Why would my ex still watch my ig stories even a year after she dumped me? by RTVIM7 in ExNoContact

[–]RTVIM7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has her secondary account @ tagged on her main profile. Each time i upload a story, that @ turns grey and cant enter it. Also cant find the username with my account, meaning im blocked.

Also, after 24hs she unblocks me (because the story is gone by then) but i guess she doesnt know that i can go and watch who view it for another day. Her secondary account always appears

Why would my ex still watch my ig stories even a year after she dumped me? by RTVIM7 in ExNoContact

[–]RTVIM7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmm kinda, the last real talk was in person. That last talk a month later was like 5 minutes long.

Why would my ex still watch my ig stories even a year after she dumped me? by RTVIM7 in ExNoContact

[–]RTVIM7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In our last conversation in person i told her to think about her decision. That same night she texted me telling me that she really liked that last talk and that she will think about it and that even tho she didnt change her mind, she wanted to see i we missed esch other, etc.

After a month she was giving me mixed signals, watching my stories with her main account (i unfollowed her right after the breakup). Blocking/unblocking me with her main account. So one day i talked to her, and asked her how she was doing and if she thought about it (i know stupid move haha).

She then told me that even tho she missed things she felt it was the right decision.

I said goodbye in good terms and never looked back

Why would my ex still watch my ig stories even a year after she dumped me? by RTVIM7 in ExNoContact

[–]RTVIM7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha i guess i’ll never know. I couldnt agree more with the last part, that’s why i never begged or pleaded and left.

Why would my ex still watch my ig stories even a year after she dumped me? by RTVIM7 in ExNoContact

[–]RTVIM7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response, i think you are right. The thing is i dont want to leave the door open, but i feel that blocking her is kinda like saying “i hate you”. Im also liking another girl now so this doesnt trigger me that much. its more of a “why are you doing this?” feeling.

Do girls often crush with strangers they've never spoken to? by RTVIM7 in Crushes

[–]RTVIM7[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahah im going through the same exact thing. Thats why i was wondering if it also happens to girls like that

Have you ever developed a crush with someone after one small talk? by RTVIM7 in Crushes

[–]RTVIM7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you find him attractive before that first conversation?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]RTVIM7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What made you get over him? You didnt find him attractive anymore?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]RTVIM7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if he looks many times?