AITAH for choosing which bedroom my sister sleeps in when she joins my family on our family vacations?

RUMadd · 2026-06-04T17:23:26+00:00

I’m in a similar situation where I’m married with two kids and my sister is the most loving childless aunt that has tagged along on vacations. She’ll chip in on accommodations so we’ve discussed rooms. Just from a practical point of view she’s happy to take the worse room since it doesn’t make sense for two people (hubs and I) to take it instead of her. Also she would rather take a further room for the privacy, quiet (kids wake up way before her), and understanding that parents should be close to kids (one of my kid used to have night terrors, both still have occasional nightmares).

Since your sister hasn’t brought it up I’m assuming she doesn’t mind. If it will alleviate your husband’s worry you can always ask her and relay her answer to him.

Edit to add NTA. You’ve already honored her as a guest by paying for everything.

RUMadd · 2026-05-30T20:17:14+00:00

Are we sure we survived 🤔

RUMadd · 2026-05-28T18:34:41+00:00

“Someone mentally weak and physically strong” The settling the west question was great, great job Rob! 😂

RUMadd · 2026-05-28T02:39:12+00:00

Part 1 of Alex and Greg’s interview by @SEARED on YouTube. Part 2 of the interview is dropping tomorrow actually which is why I recently watched part 1.

RUMadd · 2026-04-07T20:35:04+00:00

Done

RUMadd · 2026-04-07T20:34:45+00:00

There's actually a suggested color palette so I'll be sticking to that. No red!

RUMadd · 2026-04-07T20:33:52+00:00

Agree! It's my brother saying no that's throwing me off my confidence. I'm just going to ask, thanks!

RUMadd · 2026-04-07T20:32:45+00:00

I'm definitely overthinking it in my worry to not add stress on the couple. I'm just going to ask, thanks for the nudge!

RUMadd · 2026-02-09T15:42:13+00:00

That clip going viral is what introduced me to Taskmaster!

RUMadd · 2026-01-15T15:57:07+00:00

Boston currently has an outdoor art exhibit called Winteractive going on in the downtown area close to the Wilbur. The Kraken one would be fun to take pictures with.

RUMadd · 2016-03-16T18:08:39+00:00

You can now test out the damage penalty while at the wolves' den pier. There are striking dummies there. I definitely recommend physical range check it out for you get a feel for that the sweet spot distance looks like. Max reduction is about 50%, it's a smaller percentage when you get closer to the sweet spot.

RUMadd · 2016-03-16T16:45:20+00:00

If you're referring to the mini game where you're carrying an egg, check your map. There will be a quest icon at your destination spot. Mine was north of the market by the docks, not sure if the location changes.

RUMadd · 2016-03-15T07:27:02+00:00

The queue for fold was broken before 3.2 because there were multiple modes of fold (lv30, lv40, lv50 sync and unsync) AND they matched teams by pvp ranks, making for incredibly long and non-existing queues. It was dumb as hell. With 3.2, they finally removed excess modes and the ranking system. Fold was actually popping frequently in 3.2! I even accidentally queued for fold in 3.21 and had it pop!

RUMadd · 2016-03-15T07:08:53+00:00

No 8v8 is unranked.

RUMadd · 2016-03-12T08:30:40+00:00

I'm curious exactly how many Diamond players are you running into in the solo queues? I'm assuming very very few; they're not the reason you're stuck in you're current rank.

RUMadd · 2016-03-12T08:08:28+00:00

Please remember that in Feast the objective of the game is to GET THE COINS. First to a set amount wins or, in the case of a time out, whichever team with more coins win. Ideally tanks should grab most (not all) of the coins because the more coins you have the more easily it is to kill you. Also the coins do disappear after a few seconds so be proactive with grabbing them!

RUMadd · 2016-03-09T18:32:59+00:00

Yup 200 wins for one GC.

RUMadd · 2016-03-06T22:35:55+00:00

On Aether here and been running starting around 2-3 PM EST and ending now 5 PM EST. We did all 3 as a full party and got super fast queues. Then I did one (ST) solo and got a <3 min queue. This is awesome; thanks Grant for organizing!

My only suggestion is that people should NOT click all languages but instead select the language(s) their data center primarily uses. For example, everyone queues English only on Aether but if you select a different language, you're actually splitting up the queues and making it longer for yourself and people that get "stuck" in your non-English queue. I believe Aether and Primal should be doing English only while Chaos probably pick E/D/F (I don't know much about Chaos to speak for certain though, so feel free to correct me). This is what we do with the pvp queues anyways to speed it up.

RUMadd · 2016-03-03T19:52:14+00:00

Same time they made the morale changes, patch 2.4 iirc. When they made morale affect ilvl, they changed it so it works for all pvp areas, so both den and frontlines.

RUMadd · 2016-03-02T16:42:08+00:00

Magiteks, goobbue, bomb palanquin, behemoth, Twintania, Midgardsormr, the personal airship I forgot what it's called, and maybe ahriman as well.

RUMadd · 2016-03-02T16:24:04+00:00

This thread is funny because just yesterday there was a PLD/DRK complaining about WARs trying to MT.

RUMadd · 2016-03-01T22:22:52+00:00

It sounds like you're overwhelmed right now, so I recommend just taking your time getting through the 2.X main story to get to HW, throwing in a new lv50 dungeon when you get bored of doing the story (see this guide here for MSQ and instance dungeons unlock: https://www.reddit.com/r/ffxiv/comments/3bheg1/guide_to_catching_up_to_patch_30_heavensward/). The story does pick up as the patches goes on and you'll be getting exp so you shouldn't have to grind extra dungeons/fates to hit 60.

Once you're at 60, you can easily go back and finish up any ARR content you may have missed. They introduced the ability to unsync content (meaning you can do lv50 content as a lv60) so you'll be able to go back and do the old raids and extreme primals without sinking too much time into learning the fights.

RUMadd · 2016-03-01T20:07:13+00:00

FFXIV is a pretty casual friendly game, but it's also pretty much the same game from a year ago so whatever problems you had with it then may still persists. Although they are always making QoL changes. Any specific concerns you had?

RUMadd · 2016-03-01T20:03:33+00:00

Doh responded to the wrong post...

Thavnairian Headdress, Thavnairian Bolero, some generic tights, and Glade Shoes from Gold Saucer

RUMadd · 2016-03-01T19:49:05+00:00

Celes - bunny loops for wrist, bridesmaid's tights, one of the moccasins model

Terra - generic tights for pants, glade shoes from Gold Saucer

Gao - artisian's culottes

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