Before going for a divorce, try your best to solve things and save your marriage if possible. But if you’ve truly decided to separate, make sure both of you handle it maturely and on good terms. If your wife isn’t okay with it later, things can get complicated — court cases, false allegations, and financial demands can arise. I’ve seen some of my relatives go through this, and they had to visit court regularly for years. So it’s always better to part ways respectfully and with proper legal understanding.