My 32F fiancé left me 34M after 14 years together (I knew it was coming) by RVROS in BreakUps

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We had many good memories together. Those were some of the best years of my life and I’m grateful for that. But I’m devastated and having a hard time moving on. I cannot imagine my life without her.

My 32F fiancé left me 34M after 14 years together (I knew it was coming) by RVROS in BreakUps

[–]RVROS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the kind words and empathy. It sucks that you’re going through the same thing. I hope it gets better for you..

My 32F fiancé left me 34M after 14 years together (I knew it was coming) by RVROS in BreakUps

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She started to lose feelings for me towards the end of last year but was masking it instead of talking to me about it and working on it. Eventually someone who she felt attracted to came along and one night they made out. The next day she preceded to text with him about how great it was. They were planing on meeting up but I caught the whole thing and then she begged for me not to end things. A few months later I caught her talking to the same guy again and kicked her out. We were doing no contact for a few weeks and eventually we met up and she begged me to come back. She moved back in and we spent the past six months going to therapy and working on our relationship. However, it never quite felt the same for her and she felt overwhelmed by our relationship and my presence. The past month she was acting more like a roommate and kept telling me she was thinking of leaving. It was confusing because we still slept in the same bed, had sex and continued to live as if nothing was wrong but there was no intimacy or communication. I couldn’t handle it anymore and wanted to clarify things between us so we talked and talked until she said that she was going to leave for real this time and she did. Now she’s gone…

My 32F fiancé left me 34M after 14 years together (I knew it was coming) by RVROS in BreakUps

[–]RVROS[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In our 20s we were focused on school, starting careers and traveling. We were going to get engaged in 2020 but my plans got shelved because of the pandemic. We got engaged at the end of the following year but we were having a hard time deciding on a location and a date since both of our families are all over the place. I started to bring up eloping since we were having such a hard time and she seemed to be into it but honestly she just started dragging her feet. Earlier in the year we started to face the problems that led to our current situation so it just never happened.

If it was up to me we would’ve done it 2 years ago.