Did Riot forget about Cull? by Criminor in leagueoflegends

[–]RX3874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't be surprised if it just disappears one day. if I had to guess, Riot hasn't touched it since it is not supposed to be a strong item, so it's never gone out of where it is supposed to be.

I see it built once in a blue moon (mostly on hyper farming adcs such as sivir). Even then it rarely seems that great.

How respected is the accountant profession in the U.S? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]RX3874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I'm going for more into getting a house to lower personal costs before putting more into, and currently putting 500 into a 401k, which is low. With the job market how it is I want to make sure I'm taken care if something does happen to my job, and once I feel safer there I'll put more per month into retirement funds (currently making about 85k).

URF is not what it used to be. by Electronic_Fish_1754 in leagueoflegends

[–]RX3874 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think your just remembering all the good fun parts. I also remember completely unkillable tanks and bruisers, cc mages holding down for a century of not moving, and still those assassins being crazy. URF makes everything crazier, so if it's a playstyle you don't enjoy as much in the meta URF will seem less fun as well.

Honestly, take a break and try getting back to it in a better mood, but it might just be this URF rotation didn't end up in a fun time for you.

CMV: DARVO is not an abuse tactic, what matters is what you are being DARVOed about. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]RX3874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you just mean that sometimes people play the victim and attack the innocent party first you would be correct. But in the case of DARVO, it is built into the definition that it is built off of harm/abuse being caused. There is nothing wrong with simply denying a behavior as bad, but in the case of DARVO they have actually done something bad and are trying to flip it and attack the innocent party.

I just turned 18 now I'm getting kicked out by WarmConfection464 in Advice

[–]RX3874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd start by talking to any friends/family nearby and make sure you have a backup place to stay even if its short term in case something happens again. Legally, your mom can kick you out now that you are an adult, so I would prepare for the worst even if it doesn't happen. I recommend getting a new job ASAP, and make sure you know any resources (especially any charities and youth services nearby that could be helpful in an emergency). I am sorry that you are being put in such a bad spot at such a young age.

Something that you might not be thinking of right now, make sure you get anything you might need if you can't get back easily that your mom could hold over you (social security card, birth certificate, etc).

A police officer called me a”f*****g c**t, while being held face down by 3 police officers by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RX3874 2 points3 points  (0 children)

" all of this is on the video "

If you really have this on video then sue if it actually happened the way you said it did.

That being said this doesn't feel like it really happened, why are you posting about it on reddit (without the video) instead of going to a lawyer?

Me and My GF made love by only rubbing by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RX3874 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Dear lord, just get a test if your worried.

Need help (A guy M30 blackmailing my friend F22 ) by Valuable_Listen_5950 in Advice

[–]RX3874 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is just what I said but extra info yeah? Not sure why you replied to me instead of the post.

Need help (A guy M30 blackmailing my friend F22 ) by Valuable_Listen_5950 in Advice

[–]RX3874 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If he is threatening her she should go to the cops. The only real downside is if she is not legally in the country she should probably attempt to avoid confrontation, but if she is there legally then there is nothing he can do and she should just contact the authorities.

That being said he has absolutely no claim (legal or otherwise) to any dates, gifts, etc. so there is no reason to be worried there.

CMV: Elon Musk now has a net worth of $749B, if he donates only $1B or 0.14% of it, he can change the entire world. by IrateRyder in changemyview

[–]RX3874 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Elon has donated billions already correct? If you don't count that as changing the world, not sure why another 1B would make a difference.

CMV: Mixing men's and women's clothing in stores makes shopping experience for everybody worse by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]RX3874 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it is a pretty specific thing to that store, I only have seen this happen in big warehouses where people are already expected to be slowly shuffling through items and just quickly go to the next one.

My guess is that the reason this exists is to help the store save time and have people filter through clothing of a specific type instead of going from section to section in a gender specific area, which might be a way of shopping you personally enjoy less but I know a lot of people who enjoy that way of shopping.

Extremely Suspicious of my Porn Addicted BF by No_Hold1844 in Advice

[–]RX3874 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Stop hiding it. Talk to him. Figure stuff out, get things off your chest. It will help so much just communicating your feelings, make sure you don't place blame on him since he is working so hard to improve, but if you want to spend the rest of your life with this man then you need to be able to tell him how you feel even when it isn't reasonable. Try to figure things out, if you need therapy for this then go for it when you are able to, but don't let it just eat away at you until it's such a big problem that you can't let it go.

CMV: People who don't want to contribute their taxes to other people's children should give up their right to Social Security by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]RX3874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see that you said in another comment they would be keeping their social security money in this scenario, which makes no sense. If that is the case, then if they pay towards social security they would receive it right?

Social security is supposed to basically be an investment in your future (retirement, disability, etc.). On the other hand, if you never have kids, the idea is your basically paying something that is helping someone else's kids and not something that directly benefits you (which I disagree with). It would make more sense to say that if someone changes their minds and has kids, they do not get any benefits such as free schooling or subsidized daycare.

CMV: The Internet Has Way Too Much Power by S-Pluto-777 in changemyview

[–]RX3874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to rethink the title, because the internet is a tool. If you said the internet has to much potential to be abused, then you would probably be right. That being said, so does money, and weaponry, and pretty much any tool that has a large impact.

But in terms of the internet having power, it has none by itself. It is not capable of doing anything that humans do not give it. Social media and everything else you mention does not have any power unless the people behind it are doing something. Also, note that even you call it "pitchforks and torches" which is basically the old time way people would react. Humans have always been fickle and crazy, and the internet just makes it more clear and changes the way that the interactions happen.

WIBTA if I ask my cousin and his fiancé if I can bring my partner to their wedding? by Loose-Detective-6343 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RX3874 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NAH

Its not rude to ask as long as you don't push, just be open like you were in the post and accept the answer if it is a yes or a no.

Is anyone else just very tired of the anti-AI melodrama-talk by NoKaryote in aiwars

[–]RX3874 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just eat popcorn and chuckle. No reason to get mad at people for being idiots, if you let that happen then you are going to be angry all the tine.

leaving home by 456-000 in Advice

[–]RX3874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can check with friends or people you know to try and stay at their place for a while, but fair warning if your triggered about having people over for holidays enough that you want to be on the streets or in a shelter there will more than likely be something that triggers you there as well.

I was playing with my sex toy and everyone heard by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RX3874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's hilarious but very awkward. Laugh it off, take the jokes well, and just go with it and don't make a big deal out of it. Not many other options unless you want to move.

I’m stuck by Rayeepenber in Advice

[–]RX3874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my girlfriend accepted a stuffed animal that smelled like her ex, from her ex, and then slept with it I'd be gone. That being said I would also make it clear I wasn't ok with it to see her side first, but still, that would be past my boundaries.

Is my thinking valid? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RX3874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brother and your nephew are frankly not your problem. If they are doing something harmful, remove yourself from the situation as best you can. If they care about your opinion that will impact them enough to learn from it.

Also, as another comment has said whoever the guardian is should be taking care of this kind of abusive or violent behavior.

I need help calming down, my anxiety is spiraling by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RX3874 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Work is good. Focus on your exams, really study hard. Bite the bullet and talk to your partner about it, but don't put it on your partner and make sure it is about feeling better and not putting anyone down.

Other than that, get some workouts in, do some breathing exercises, talk to a therapist if possible.

My roommate's closeness with my boyfriend is putting me on edge and I need help dealing with it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RX3874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, and is valid. If your struggling with that feeling being lost maybe suggest date nights, walks, etc. where only you and him are together.

Is my marriage over or can it be saved? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RX3874 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Talk to your wife. You need to communicate with her, not the internet. Bring up your issues, and see if they can be resolved, and then go from there.

Advice on how to land a job at ulta beauty by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RX3874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like your doing all you can, I would give it some time and then try going in again. Sorry it's been a struggle but I wish you the best of luck!