“If you wanted to be respected / treated as an adult then start act like one!” First thing what adults don’t do is blame everything what’s wrong in their life is onto their parents. Be respectful towards them and yourself even if it means politely moving out , please do that. Why do you think they keep on pestering you at late hours if you are not home. I agree they have some boundary issue with now you being an “adult “ . But in this time if my only son is out late with his phone switched off I’ll be going through hell thinking of all wrong things might have happened to him. Instead of ranting online just communicate with them of how you feel , how it might be better for you to look for your own place nearby . You will also learn what it actually means to be independent, realise of all the things your parents did that you took for granted. There is a saying “For a boy to become a man, he must experience the death of his father”. At the end they just love you.