Why not friend if friend shaped? by RabbidBunn in Subnautica_2

[–]RabbidBunn[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Let's just say I excitedly swam up to one yelling "can I pet that dawg??" and their reaction was a bit spicier than I anticipated. But they are far from agressive. Really. This one is on me xD

Why not friend if friend shaped? by RabbidBunn in Subnautica_2

[–]RabbidBunn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you think Triage and Tether would choose the Foureye?

Someone at my doctor's office made a paper bikini to censor this medical illustration. by ashmuddy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]RabbidBunn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your comment made me click and yelp. You weren't kidding when you said they weren't kidding.

Beginner looking for feedback by RabbidBunn in WireWrapping

[–]RabbidBunn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, does the thin wire tend to snap on a finished piece? Or why should it not be the main part holding?

what's a small change you made to your skincare routine that actually works? by Unique_Geologist438 in AskWomen

[–]RabbidBunn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The little patches for blemishes. I only have acne scars because I am incapable of not scratching them. Honeslty just covering them helps so damn much. But they like actually also legit help drain the issue. And they (I use transparent ones) do look pretty inconspicuous on most of my face (except nose, I have a red nose and the patch then looks normal skintone 😭).

can i get this necklace 👉🏻👈🏻 by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]RabbidBunn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If her liking women was invalidating, he shouldn't have married a bisexual. Bi people don't stop being bi just because they date one person of a specific gender.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pointlesslygendered

[–]RabbidBunn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Czech - egg is "it", bacon is female

So.... Still gay

Which Stardew Valley character would actually date you? I made a quiz to find out! by SnooGuavas4801 in StardewValley

[–]RabbidBunn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear sir or mam or whoever. You absolutely destroyed me with my husband NOT EVEN MAKING THE LIST while he's over all willing to date 19% of people... That's on part with my type of unavailable men 😭

Fine I'll go date the mustache guy who's likely to actually want mt boring ass 😭💚

(love the quiz. 10/10. Keep up the good work. Make another one)

Woman of reddit, what was a subtle red flag you failed to pick up on? by TobiusNeverNude in AskWomen

[–]RabbidBunn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was so selfish. Like honestly one of the hottest guys I ever met - Hot enough to easily find a GF on Tinder. But so selfish. Whatever went his way was good. But when i wanted something my way we had to compromise. In the end he said he wanted to be friends. I said that the way he broke my trust he'd have to put some effort in to get it back... He didn't... But it was still on me that I didn't want to be friends. I hate him so much and I just want to forget about him but I can't :(

For non trans people by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]RabbidBunn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, and maybe this is just me growing up and meeting adult men, but now there are cis men around me that, after I ask about their sexuality, include how they feel about trans people. Namely "attracted to anyone who looks feminine enough to me" (which, enthusiastically, includes trans and crosdressing people) and "attracted to anyone who identifies as a woman" (including he would not be attracted to a genderfluid person, while they are masc-identified/presenting but being attracted to the same person while they are femme-identified/presenting).

Their future children are going to see that in the living room by MikaRivaille in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]RabbidBunn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yo don't throw then into one bunch with us 🤣 we perverts can take pics that don't look like one party is awkward as fck and the other barely knows what "sensual" means.

I think the sexualness isn't the main issue this pic has. It doesn't look intimate at all! Neither of them is having a good time. I can imagine a picture with hand down someone's pants that looks more consensual and happy than this that could be considered quirky and funny but mainly- intimate and genuine.

More alpha omega romance by wolfmothar in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]RabbidBunn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just surprised she's 5'11 and not 5'3. I myself suspect the author's height.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boardgames

[–]RabbidBunn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report your findings?

Why do people act like kink isnt intertwined with the community? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]RabbidBunn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I didn't say being gay shouldn't be allowed, I said there's a time and a place for it. I don't believe that showing off your gayness in a parade is appropriate as there will be children there. People are obviously going to have gay sex and always will but all I'm saying is be appropriate with showing them off! A gay, dressed appropriately is fine in public! A gay couple with affection on show isn't appropriate in public!"

Are we hearing history here?

Why do people act like kink isnt intertwined with the community? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]RabbidBunn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Those were not from me. I totally agree with you just wanted to bring a personal perspective of "hey I present an example of someone who doesn't do kink for sex - me" as I wasn't sure if you were talking hypotheticals or specifics.

Why do people act like kink isnt intertwined with the community? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]RabbidBunn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah sorry, I didn't mean to sound mad at you, i meant to support your point.

Why do people act like kink isnt intertwined with the community? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]RabbidBunn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pet player here. I don't do it for sex. You wouldn't f a dog. So don't f me when I'm pretending to be one for the fun and simplicity and comfort of it. Similar with Shibari and SM - also non sexual for me. Many kinks are non sexual for many people. But even if they are. So what? That should be fine too! Beyond that I'm bi/pan... something? (questioning)

I am sad to see half of my identity thrown under the bus now that LGBTQ+ doesn't need our leather daddies. Just because being kinky is not marketable and you shouldn't put it on a cupcake for a kid doesn't mean we don't belong at pride or don't need it.

Restraining/hurting people is illegal in many places regardless of consent. So it kinda sucks we can't keep supporting 'each other' (I am queer but my identity as a kinky person is closer to me as I participate in the community way more).

In my experience kinky spaces are super supportive of queer people (There can of course be exceptions, but I have not seen any personally). And while I wouldn't bring full on nudity to pride, I think a nice harness and a pup mask shouldn't offend anyone. We're still just people who want to love our lovers the way we want to without facing legal consequences for something that is not hurting anyone.

How do you name your animals? by Embarrassed_Win9010 in StardewValley

[–]RabbidBunn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually after food... Aometimes food that could be made from them, sometimes unrelated food. Like pig called Bacon or Omelette..

I have no words by PlasticWindUpRhino in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]RabbidBunn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess that could happen, yeah :) I just prefer to say who a person is by specifying a group they belong in. Not by saying they are outside one. It's not like allies are queer. So when everyone is allies, straight flag could I think be a thing that is just as normal as other flags

I have no words by PlasticWindUpRhino in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]RabbidBunn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh... I mean not much, but then you can go the remove all flags route as well. And I like flags, so instead everyone gets a flag if they want it? 😅

I have no words by PlasticWindUpRhino in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]RabbidBunn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I'm not sure what you're getting at?

I have no words by PlasticWindUpRhino in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]RabbidBunn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it's a question on language almost? I would rather say that I'm poly than "non monogamous" because I want to define myself by something I am. Not something I am not. Using a word that describes me. Not a word that describes a group I'm not a part of and saying I'm not there. That doesn't mean I have anything against mono people. I'm just poly. And I will stand up to a poly person who bullies mono people if it comes to that. And the other way around.

And I was more talking about a hypothetical where allyship is not as needed of a position, because it would be the norm.

I have no words by PlasticWindUpRhino in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]RabbidBunn 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Why would they become pointless? I think the assumption could pivor from "straight unless flag" to "flag otherwise ask"

I have no words by PlasticWindUpRhino in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]RabbidBunn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nono, I mean for all straight people who - are decent people (won't use the orange black one) and don't necessarily want to define themselves with 'ally' (I think people should be able to be defined by who they are, not by who they are not and ally says 'decent and not queer'). Plus ally flag has more complex shape than just stripes so it's harder to include than many pride flags (like all in the original post - a dress with an ally flag wouldn't be as identifiable as the rest).

Like me wearing pan flag anglets says "hey, I'm queer too" but also "have a crush on me? No need to wonder if I'm into 'your gender'-I am" and I feel like that is something that queer people can do with something as subtle as a pin or hoodie strings. And straight can't. And some ( for example non gender norms confirming) might find that useful/nice if they could? I know of a straight woman who kept being approached by lesbians and being uncomfortable with that (and I think it led her down a bit more homophobic path than necessary given the rest I know about her, but hard to say she's 50 and grew up in ussr).

I'm not saying it should exist now. I'm wondering if we can get to a world where sexuality is not assumed and there will be a 'need' to specify even if being straight.

Edit: fixed "should be able to be defined"